#3 Recognize their emotional blackmails. Keep an eye on the way your partner tries to manipulate you. Do they try bullying you, intimidating you, or do they say something that makes you feel weak and want to give in? Try to pinpoint the signs that make you feel vulnerable and used in the relationship. #4 Take a stand. You may not be ready to say ‘no’ just yet. But you could at least take a stand when you don’t feel like doing something, right? If your partner asks you for something you don’t wish to do, explain yourself calmly and tell them why you don’t wish to do it. You may feel really awkward the first few times, but your confidence will grow and you’ll regain your strength each time you say ‘no’.
Posted on: Sun, 02 Nov 2014 17:28:54 +0000