#7797 #Love #Male SORRY ,IT IS TOO LONG. I WANT HELP PLEASE Male 18 i am in an relationship since februry 2014. And to be clear i love her alot. In begaining we used to be in touch everytime through calls and whatsapp, and used to meet often. Simply, everything went well until she she got shift in another room... Now residing with her bro and sis in the same room we couldnt talk much over phone. I mean just for short time in 3 or 4 days, but we still kept on chatting over whatsapp and kept meeting too. Though it hurts not to listen her every now and then but i compromised as was compelled. Things got worse when i left for home just for 2 month, her behaviour got changed.. Its the 2nd month going on and we are fighting on silly things everyday. She doesnt makes much calls, gets busy everytime i wanna talk, her priorities have changed from me into friends and whenever i tell her that if you should have cared about relationship and valued me rather than being busy we might have been good yet, she says you cant keep me caught in a box its upon me whom to talk and how to lead my life, i cant be as you want she never realises her mistakes and often blame me for them. Never realises how much i am doing for her and if i tell her she says maine to kaha nai tha ki karo if i write things over whatsapp in lengthy messages, the reply i got is HMM. I tried to make her understand in every possible way but all in vain. Its like only i am carrying this relationship. I am going to bombay for my further studies in upcoming months and will be there for 3 -4 years. I want this relationship but cant live like this. Frankly i am not getting what i deserve but dont wanna beg for it. Now things are : 1. Does she deserve me? 2. Am i wrong or having a wront mindset. 3. Should i continue? 4. Her saying dekho mai tumhare sath reh lungi but vaise nai jaise tum chahte ho meri marji hogi jaise rahungi jitna time dena hoga utna dungi tum priority raho aisa nai ho sakta should be percepted as inconsent to heartly carry on or infedelity. 5. Is she worth trying on, compromising upon. 6. HELP ME #Sarah - Look! You are in a complicated situation. I feel, being in a relationship doesnt mean you have to be close all the time or keep in contact all the time. Demand for some personal space should not be questioned or doubtet until misused. Now the thing is its not sure if she is giving you less than you deserve or you are demanding more. So just clear your mind think about it with peace. Talk to her about what you have in your mind. And then if you feel that your relationship wont survive the long distance, then let it go before you leave for Mumbai. And only you can decide if she truly deserves you and is worth compromising on or not. Ultimately the decisiin has to be yours. So just give it a thought soon. Good luck (Y)
Posted on: Sun, 25 Jan 2015 09:14:13 +0000
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