: Be Someone She Can Trust Be sensitive when you talk about female friends . If you have female friends that you would like your girlfriend to befriend or if you want her to trust you in your friendships with other women, never compliment your female friends physical attributes. If you have something positive to say about a female friend, say something about her personality, as in, that she is warm, friendly or creative. Whatever you do, dont lead in with, My friend is coming to town and I really want you to meet her. Youll really like her. Shes gorgeous! All of my friends cant keep their eyes off her - when shes around, conversation stops because all the guys just keep staring at her! Understand that your girlfriend may be suspicious of your female friends at first. Always uplift your girlfriend so that knows that she is the only one in the world that you have eyes for. Your friendships with your female friends will be accepted much more smoothly if you follow this step. Tell the truth about important issues but know when little white lies are appropriate . Major lies will drive a wedge of suspicion and mistrust between you and your girlfriend that you may never be able to fix. You may throw away a whole relationship with just one act of mistrust. Show her youre trustworthy by your actions. Conversations you have with other women should never border the line of being flirtatious or intimate. She needs to know that she can trust you in speech and conduct even in the little things. If you have a hard time with this one, maybe you arent ready for a relationship and should instead question why you feel the need to flirt with other women in the first place. When you are in a relationship, never tell her that another woman is prettier than she is. If she asks you whether another girl is more attractive than she is, then your default answer should always be a resounding NO! Never talk about how you find some celebrity really gorgeous. Doing this will only make her feel bad about herself, and she will resent you for it. When you do feel the need to comment on the beauty of someone like Angelina Jolie or Scarlett Johansson, always remind your girlfriend that, in your eyes, she is more attractive. Confide in her. Open up to her in a way that you dont do for most people. When you show her that you trust her, shes more likely to trust you back. Keep her secrets when she does the same for you. You can show your girlfriend a side of you that you dont normally share with your buddies. Have good online and phone etiquette. When you’re in a relationship, make sure that you say so on your Facebook account. Be proud of her so that shell feel confident in you. If someone hits on you online, tell your girlfriend right away. If you keep a secret from her, and if she is already insecure, then hiding your secret will make her insecurity worse. Avoid communicating with other girls over e- mail, text or social networks without letting your girlfriend know what youre doing. If youre flirting with someone else via text message and your girlfriend discovers your texts, then shes going to be furious. Defend her in front of other people. If someone is teasing her, take her side. Girls need to know that their men have their backs at all times. How would you feel if she took her friends or your friends side over yours? Let her know she can depend on you to stick up for her.
Posted on: Wed, 23 Oct 2013 15:45:43 +0000
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