*Ek msg aya h yaaro :( Plz post it. M 24 yrs old girl. And m - TopicsExpress



          

*Ek msg aya h yaaro :( Plz post it. M 24 yrs old girl. And m doing govt job and preparing for other govt exams too. I loved a boy from the core of my heart but he cheated on me. I was in relationship with him for almost 4 yrs. And now I dont want any other boy in my life. My parents dont know about it and I cant tell them becoz they dont like these things. Now my parents are forcing me to get married. And I said ok only for their happiness. But I dont like the boy they selected for me. He is liar, his family is liar. And there are so much differences between us. My upringing is in city and he lives in a village. I couldnt adjust with his family becz they will never understand me. They are illiterate. And I also dont want to see below my level. He dont have any job either. How can I live with him. My parents fix our marriage only on the basis of agricultural land as they have many fields in their village. And they are demanding dowry also. We find so many lies of them. And that boy is maanglik too.. But my parents still forcing me to get marry with that boy becoz they said it is ur fate and there is no guarantee that any other boy will be better than him. And they dont want to hurt the boy family by saying no. But there is no match. How can I adjust with him. And I hate him for so many reasons. He went to my clg and talked nonsense with my frnds. When I asked him he refuses. He spread rumours in my community about me and him that we are doing love marriage but the truth is that I never seen him. And he talks very sweetly to my parents that my parents liked him. But he does nothing about his career and all. I also tried to convince him that its not perfect match but he didnt understand even my single point. And I also told the whole story to my parents but they only trying to make me agree. I m very depressed now a days. I even not recoverd from my past relatinship and now this relationship are forcefully thrown on me. I m very good in my studies but all things are messing up now. I know my parents love me a lot. But they also give priority to our society. What if I couldnt manage with that boy after marriage. Will society come to support me? Or they will again force me to continue my marriage. My father havent give a single look to any other guy. There are many proposels from well settled families but my father only looks after him. And I really hate that boy. Now what should I do??
Posted on: Thu, 18 Dec 2014 11:33:33 +0000

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