(Everybody plz PAY ATTENTION n must read it) Well Said by CHETAN BHAGAT... 1. Not every girl wants to get married by 23. So before you ASSUME shes of marriageable age, ask her what her views on marriage are. One hint, might save you the drama- just because she does not want to get married now does not mean she never will. She has other plans for herself right now, let her live a little. 2. Just because a girl wishes to do her PhD after Masters does not mean she doesnt want to settle down in life. Give her a break, and respect the fact that she has the confidence to take that up, cos yeah, PhD is no joke. There will come a point when she would happily devote herself to her family, and balance it out with her work life. Her degrees, or lack of them, wont make any difference. Let her study while she wants to. 3. Just because she is 27 and unmarried does not mean shes been rejected by many men. Maybe, being single is a choice she has made. 4. Having a boyfriend does not make her characterless. 5. Just because she has recently gone through a break up doesnt mean she is vulnerable and available. 6. Just because most of her friends are boys, does not mean she is having a good time with all of them. 7. Just because she wore a short skirt to one party does not mean she dresses up that way every day. 8. Just because she is ambitious doesnt mean she isnt a family person. 9. Just because she doesnt discuss her plans doesnt mean shes clueless about life. Give her a chance. 10. Just because she is outspoken doesnt mean she is a rebel. 11. Just because she comes home late from work does not mean she is sleeping around with her colleagues. 12. After a hectic week, give her some time to relax over the weekend. Dont make that one weekend party make her look like shes a frivolous party-girl without a job. 13. Just because she is out shopping alone does not mean she is depressed or lonely. Its how she relaxes, respect that. 14. Just because she is on a holiday alone does not mean she doesnt have company. Maybe its a break to get back her lost confidence, or maybe thats how she is. Admire her spirit instead of giving her advice. 15. Just because she is a woman doesnt mean she cant kick ass in military school. 16. Just because she has a tattoo doesnt mean she is attention seeking. Maybe thats her way of expression. 17. Just because she doesnt know how to cook doesnt mean she wont make a good wife. Remember when you cooked chicken curry for d first time was um or a disaster? 18. Just because she likes everything pink and shiny and fluffy doesnt mean she lives in her own world. She can handle some situations much better than her male counterparts. 19. Just because she is pretty does not mean she is a whore. And just because she is friendly does not mean she is flirting with you. Yes, we cry, we are emotional; we take things personally, and sometimes over-react to situations. But this does not give any one the right to judge us in the wrong way. Times are changing; dont confine her within those boundaries, no matter how orthodox you are. There are some who might be fighting this losing battle, yet compromising on their decisions and plans, just to please society. Respect n do share... :))
Posted on: Tue, 05 Aug 2014 16:50:49 +0000
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