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#HELP #INTERVENTION - Even the smallest of people are some of the most insecure... The other day I was at a beach with a friend. For the sake of her privacy I will call her Khloe. I write this post today as a form of intervention with her permission despite her insecurities. I have known Khloe for a long time. She is one of the most beautiful people to have ever graced my life both at heart and in body. When I first met Khloe I knew we were going to be friends right off the bat, she is smart, sensitive, driven and above all compassionate for anyone but herself. A month after we met she opened her heart and told me that she had suffered from Anorexia and Bulimia from a young age and still hadnt fully recovered along with another disorder that fed off her self loathing (one which I wont say unless she wants the world to know). To look at this vibrant human being you would think she had it all, the looks the charm and the personality to boot. I couldnt understand how someone like her could loathe herself enough to be forced into hospital over 5 times and each time almost died. As our friendship has grown she has become stronger as a human being but the disorders that one had their clammy hands on her have begun to rear their ugly heads again. I cannot say she is in the state of mind and fights them daily but alas they are getting worse. I write this post in dedication to anyone out there suffering and will show her what I have written and all of your responses. This girl is 149cms tall and approximately 42kgs in weight and still sees herself as a 80kgs. Its funny what the mind does to trick the eyes. I asked her today when I caught her chewing and spitting out her food what it was that she saw in the mirror. I was horribly shocked to hear her answer. 1. She pulled at the tiny piece of skin on her arm and said it was fat: despite the fact she has been toning he arms and they have grown into muscle. 2. She pulled at the tiny piece of skin on her stomach and said that it was far: despite her constant cardio and sit-ups. 3. She pulled at the nonexistent Fat on her legs: despite her constant weights, running and squats. In her eyes she is FAT! I ask you on her behalf, if you could change one thing or tell her what to fix on her body... what would it be? I ask you on my behalf, if you could say anything to her to make her see how gorgeous she is...what would it be? Xx Ava
Posted on: Thu, 15 Jan 2015 10:33:03 +0000

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