-Love tips....... ****The True Meaning Of Love**** -Let me take a moment to define love....According to Dictionary, love is a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person. -In simpler terms, love is a total, complete consideration and intense devotion for another person. -The true meaning of love is not simply Im very fond of you or you make me feel really good. If your love is based solely on how good your spouse or fiance makes you feel, what happens when your spouse\fiance makes you angry beyond belief?..Or what happens when your spouse\fiance betrays your trust? Or when youre not talking to each other? Or when youre only arguing with each other? 1.Is Your Love Fair-Weather?...Will your love cause you to abandon ship when the storms arise in your relationship or marriage?....Or will it compel you to stand your ground and safely guide your marriage through the storms to calm waters? -The choice is yours to make. Whats the deciding factor? Your view of love, and how seriously you believe in it. -The true meaning of love does not depend on the weather conditions of your relationship or marriage...fair weather vs stormy weather... Love always reaches out to touch the good in each other, regardless of whats going on. So lets break down the definition of love even further. You need to truly see how marvelous it really is. -Okay, if you analyze each word from the above definition of love, this is what you get: an absolute, undivided, uncompromised or unmodified careful thought, regard and respect, along with an extreme kind of selfless affection and dedication, for another person. WOW! Truly powerful.Thats really deep. -That leaves no ambiguity regarding the true meaning of love. Theres no room for doubting what to do when youre facing a difficult situation with your spouse or fiance. When the seas become rough, you dont drop the lifeboat and abandon your relationship or marriage. Of course, if youre dealing with spouse \fiance abuse, thats totally different. By all means, get to safety and dont look back! 2.Truly Dedicate Yourselves To Each Other...Instead of turning your back on your spouse or fiance when youre toiling through bad times, your love drives you to reach out and bear each others pains. -Love causes you to comfort each other, even when youve just had the biggest argument of your relationship or marriage. How many hurtful things have you said or done to your fiance or spouse? How many times have you been forgiven for them? Why? LOVE. 3.Embrace Your Journey Together...Real love demands that all of your tender affection, care, dedication and respect is given to your spouse or fiance selflessly.That means its not all about me, me, me...Youre willing to sacrifice how you may really feel to make your spouse or fiance happy. -Youre willing to forgive your spouse or fiance when youve been wronged. Youre able to look past your sometimes volatile emotions to see and touch that beautiful person you love. -Love allows each of you to be your best. Thats what the true meaning of love is all about. If you see your spouse or fiance hurting, you want to make them better. You want to take their pain away, even if youre the cause of it. -Sometimes, if the pain is deep, they may push you away initially. It may be best to give them time to process their hurt and anger so they can embrace you again. Just dont give up! -You never lose sight of each other. Never let go of each other.Ala love eyabako just understand it... -Finally look at the love of God,despite our unfaithfulness,God never withdraws His love for us..He keeps on forgiving us...Psalm 86:15,Romans 5:8,Ephesians 2:4-5 .. -Be blessed and Shalom-
Posted on: Sun, 19 Oct 2014 17:13:24 +0000
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