• Men really aren’t complicated. Do those two things: Pray to Allah for your husband , appreciate him and make love frequently, and you’ll likely find that he starts being nicer to the kids. He helps with the dishes. He phones if he’s going to be late. He feels competent and appreciated, and he wants to keep excelling in the family sphere because it’s something he does well.If you Make him feel like he’s not doing it well, and he will start to wither. People says: When a man gets his primary needs met, he tends to reach out and start meeting a woman’s needs. So they assumes that women act the same way: when we get our need for affection met, and when he starts helping around the house and caring about us, we’ll start to make love more. It’s not true. I’ve known many men who are saints at home and their wives aren’t helping at all, because we tend to question men’s motivations. We think either that they’re trying to manipulate us, or we come up with other things they’re doing wrong. Or, perhaps even more likely, we think to ourselves: “I’m glad he cares about me, because I work really hard. I need to take a break now so he can carry more of the load”, and we don’t think of returning the favour much at all. #Marriage #Men #Husband
Posted on: Sun, 24 Nov 2013 10:08:24 +0000
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