....ROAD TO SUCCESS IS ALWAYS UNDER CONSRUCTION.... Below are the pictures frequently appearing in print and digital media nowadays telling the story of amount of struggle people, particularly school going children , have to put in their day to day life at various places across the country. I do believe that yes there should be proper infrastructure of all kind available to each and every citizen of the country. There should be minimum struggle, minimum hardship in ones daily living and it is the responsibility of the state to avail minimum basic comfort to its people. But here I would like to discuss the subject from the view point Struggle Leads To Success or Road to success is always under construction . We have a numerous illustration in front of us , from President Abraham Lincon to President Dr. A.P.J.Abdul Kalam, who have succeed in climbing the top while sailing a sea full of struggle & hardship in the beginning years of their growth. Life and labor are synonymous. Life and labor have the same meaning. But slowly, slowly we have started calling those people who do not have to do physical exertion, fortunate, and those who have to do physical exertion, unfortunate. And in a way it has become so, because in a way many people have dropped doing labor so some people have to do too much labor. Too much labor kills one. Too little labor also kills one. I was told at Agricultural University while studying forestry subject plants that are grown or developed in laboratory conditions have to carefully dislocate to the open field with due process of hardening to adapt natural climatic conditions. As developed in controlled environment ( heat, light and humidity ), such plant on directly taking to field will succumb to death as are not susceptible to environmental factors. Such danger is not associated with plant that are grown naturally. Same theory is applied to the child too. When she is groomed in protected environment and having no access to the wordy world may not sustain in life when encountered with a situation she has never passed through. Child development is a process. Each new physical skill your child acquires, she learns in stages. It’s important to respect each step because each progression requires new levels of concentration, coordination, balance and muscular control. Most of us no longer believe the theory of teaching swimming that some of our parents adopted in the sixties: that you teach a child to swim by throwing him into the pool. Although a child acquires new skills through struggle, take care that the level of difficulty doesn’t exceed the child’s capacity for frustration. A child who is constantly frustrated by tasks above his skill level will begin to feel incompetent. This is exactly the opposite of what you want to teach. If your child is trying to climb up on the tree, but can’t do it by herself, give her a little boost, rather than picking her up and placing her on the branch of tree. Each time she tries, give her less help. Eventually, she’ll learn how to climb up on her own. If we allow our kids to develop the skills to do things for themselves, then we create the opportunity for self-accomplishment. Teaching a child the value of struggle early on is crucial. Once they’ve made it through something difficult, they’ll learn that they can struggle through most anything, including the unforeseen challenges often presented by life. Ghanshyam Savani Surendra Gohil Rajhans Gupta Radhika Tikku Deokinandan Sharma Tejal Amin Pankajsinh Thakor Ca Vinodchandra G Desai Yash Gandhi Nirav Shah
Posted on: Wed, 13 Aug 2014 10:44:28 +0000
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