***TRIGGER***Do not continue reading if you are overly sensitive about issues of #domesticviolence Let me preface by saying Im NOT a therapist, I am NOT a domestic violence expert, and I do NOT think that I know what is going on in other peoples lives. This is the truth as I see it. Weve all heard gossips and the questions about, why does she/he stay, If it were me I would... ,I dont understand why she/he puts up with it Well, its far more complicated than that but for simplicity, here are my thoughts. This is my final warning......***STOP READING NOW***. Your abuser is going to kill you. Sooner or later you are going to die from this abuse. Hes not going to magically one day stop beating you and dont let your bible study friends feed you this crap either. Now I dont know how dangerous it is for you to leave but I know when someone violates you it kills your spirit. I see you, I see you smiling and putting on a show for the world and I understand why you would do it. You tell yourself that he/she is just jealous and they love you TOO much and in your heart you know thats bull but it feels better than acknowledging that you dont matter to him/her. Stay if you want, but YOU ARE GOING TO DIE- EITHER PHYSICALLY OR SPIRITUALLY, either way its going to kill you. All the physical and verbal abuse are justified by the few times that he compliments you or does something nice for you and your family. You like the idea of being someones wife/ girlfriend/ husband/ partner/ boyfriend/ boo/ bae. Youre exposing your children to violence and in turn they dont feel safe in their own homes- they act out in school and youre too blind to see the connection. Youre confused about whats wrong with little Johnny at school and why he misbehaves. Whats wrong with him is hes in the middle of hell when hes home, listening to his parents hatred for each other. Youre sons and daughters no longer understand that putting their hands on or disrespecting someone is a violation and so the cycle continues- Your daughter will be abused and your sons will become abusers. Stop your foolishness about you CANT leave- you are staying because youve lost respect for yourself (may it be due to the abuse) and you dont feel like youre even worth saving. If no one else has ever told you, let me be the first. YOU ARE WORTH IT- YOU ARE VALUABLE-YOU ARE LOVED (but not by that loser whos hitting you and calling you names) This is the truth as I see it.
Posted on: Thu, 09 Oct 2014 13:54:04 +0000
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