#TheMoment Hello Albert, I have a problem in my house. It’s gradually swallowing me up and I can’t help it. Please make your listeners help me with it. My wife and I are planning our wedding since we are done with the traditional rites, we have been together for close to three years now. She is educated and I am too. But she earns more than I do because she does a white color job and I own a shop where I sell bicycle spare parts. Actually my shop was collapsing when I met her, but she helped me revive it. Our first and second years were ok but I think she is changing. Now we have disagreements and petty fights very often and the main reason is that she is not being submissive. She is not the woman I fell in love with anymore and I have come to realize that it is because she earns more than I do. I know I am the man and I expect to be treated as such, but she, being the one who earns more is obviously not willing to succumb to me. She wants to be the decider in every aspect of our lives. And what is getting me more confused is the fact that anytime these misunderstandings aggravate to a quarrel, she will later come apologizing and reassuring me of her love. I don’t know if I should call it a weakness that she has but I am being hesitant about finalizing our marriage with a wedding. I keep encouraging myself that she would change but lately, feel I should probably bow out while I still can. I love her and apparently she loves me too and she has really helped me I must say but my fears are about the future, when we are completely married and maybe with kids and then all these would be going on, I think it would even affect our children. Honestly, this has been going on for about a year now, she even embarrasses me in public at times, or when we are with our families, relating to how she helped me with my shop and other confidential issues, and a few days later, she will come apologizing for her actions. We had another episode last three days night and when she woke me up this dawn to apologize, I nearly ended up in tears myself. Please make your listeners help.
Posted on: Wed, 05 Nov 2014 15:44:43 +0000
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