..and to my fellow fibro/ arthritis, and other ailment crew ( at our young ages for such issues), also keep warm, eat well, take care of you first, otherwise were no good to anyone else. We all know- young and old- the weather is changing..I wish it were due to the obvious New England weather patterns, yet we feel it with every move we make.. The pain , discomfort & burning are not visually seen to the average person, but I can detect the weather without a 3 day forecast & Doppler radar, as I know you can. I slept briefly, yet even with preventative migraine regiment, I awoke with a mild one, indicating a change in Barometric pressure and rain on the way anytime from 24-72 hes. Those who know are aware, and I thank God who dont and wont ever experience the disruption these diseases cause ones every day life. Dont be afraid to ask for help, or just put something off, itll be there tomorrow. Unfortunately theres some of us that do ask & no one shows, because they cant see or feel your pain & enjoy making a joke of it, and find pleasure in calling you lazy or F.O.S. to them who call themselves friends, Ill pray you treat others better and learn to distinguish the truly phony from those of us who may need an extra set of hands for a day, because we cant lift or move an item(s) ourselves.. Or us females who may need a friend or twos help getting your / our ready for the holidays without judgment, or even just ready to be comfortable in a nice, warm . cozy home for the cold winter. It does make a world of difference our situation.. Thanks for reading...hopefully this wakes some people up to the realities we face every day. Some of our own families arent even willing to try to accept & perceive these diagnosis. Some is ignorance & some is blatant disregard for compassion & caring. I speak for myself when I say. 10 years, @ least 1 appt pert month & NEVER missed an appt. isnt nothing! & there are many of us going through this. I myself was surprised how many friends have dealt with this for years, and we are now à verbal support system. Unfortunately some of us are embarrassed to ask for help, because people who claim to be friends, want too be paid rather than the way I grew up, and one hand washed the other-( you found a couple hrs. and helped a friend out ). Or because you havent been able to maintain & simple housework has gotten away from some, and getting help without everyone who knows you, now thinks youre sloppy because that friend was really just nosey, not helping with good intentions. Well, luck everyone in our situations and those really wanting to learn & help for THE RIGHT REASONS.. GOD BLESS & back go bed for me... Ciao for now! ✌
Posted on: Mon, 20 Oct 2014 10:41:10 +0000
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