***back story for the weekend**** On that Friday, after I had already been home from work for a few hours, I start getting text messages from the Attorney asking questions about the dates for residency and why we believe the dates we have are expected to be accepted by the Judge as accurate? At first, I compared the information with what I had as proof about the date, and that I thought it was because she of the “family locator” installed on phone, and it had been activated and had been used to located the X’s phone and when it was active, it “pinged” at his the address for his family. So, we called the cell phone provided and asked for a copy of that verification. Of course, the cell phone provider only keeps record of that information for 60 days. Ugh!! Ok, well, that is what I had to tell the attorney. So I text the attorney and let her know about the “ping”. Again, a few hours later I received another text from the attorney, and now the attorney does not believe that the residency “180” days has been met. I responded that we were going by the “ping” and that the vehicle registration about 30 days later more than confirmed it. I thought, “No one registers their vehicle less than 30 days after moving?” So why not use the “ping”? A few minutes later I got another text, and this time the attorney said that the case needed to be dismissed and start over. My heart sank as I read this. I could feel the blood begin to boil, what? Are you serious? I am staring at my phone on a Friday evening, mad that the attorney who gave me the court rule months ago, helped me with a previous case, and knew full well what was going on and was fully aware, and was asked a favor and said “yes” was now going to tell me that it needed to be dismissed? Start over? The X is a Narcissist, He will never be found again, at least not without a private investigator physically staking out his house. It was bad enough I feel like I live in a lifetime movie, but come on, this has to end, someone somewhere needs to grow a vagina and make the X-N face the music. I was baffled how could this amazing attorney who showed me the “case law” for this situation, give up so easily? I did not understand. I was crushed. I was confused, pissed and sad. Then I got frustrated because if the attorney did not want to help, then why not just say “NO” to begin with when I asked? I tried to cool off, first, so a short time later I text back, “ok, fine, thanks anyway. Now you’re off the hook.” I called my friend and we talked and I told her what the attorney said, and about dismissing. The phone went silent. I asked if she was still there, and she said she was. She was sad, confused, and emotionally drained that the man who screwed both of us figuratively and literally was yet again going to get away with this crap. We knew she was getting the new job and moving to another state, and would not be a resident any where technically. While we have concrete proof that the X-N was and is with his parents, and every family member of the N new it; and I served it personally STANDING ON THEIR DOOR STEP!!! I asked what she wanted to do? She said, at court, the attorney said, she could “at the very least, GET ME DIVORCED!” and that is what I want, I want to be divorced! I said, “ok, I will talk to the attorney on Monday.”
Posted on: Wed, 04 Sep 2013 14:40:00 +0000
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