...note to self...dont gloat...waited another hour to do the snowblowing before dark and made 2 swipes up dads driveway one up mine and the path from here to there and to his oil tank...went down a little hill and something...I presume ice shifted in the motor and bang it went and shut down...this time oil started pouring out of rear panel...soooooooooooooo spent the next hour and a half shovelling dads driveway and the dogs space in the yard...tired...I went in to cook supper and do dads 6pm drops...did dishes and spent half hour cleaning microwave...he refuses to cover anything he puts in there so you can imagine what it might have looked like...been meaning to get to it...sat down to wait between drops...pheww...felt good...still two small bolts to put plastic cover back over belts on snowblower so I set the tool on the table next to me so I would see it in the morning at 6 and not forget to put them back in and put the tools back...weeellll...went back to my house about 730 and slept about 3 and a half hours...got up made a coffee...decided that I would get some sleep and shovel my driveway after midnight drops...my house needed attention too and it is trash night...went over dads at midnight and when I got thru the door...he said he wanted to talk to me about some things...he said I left an empty box on the counter in a basket...somehow there was two open lines of crackers...I left the bread untied just bag wrapped under it...this happened about 530 and it was now 12 and supposedely it was so goddam dry he had to throw it away... and I did not put those goddam tools back where I found them and the box with kitchen bags in it was left on the counter...I was not happy to hear about it...he also said that I pulled the dryer screen out halfway and he dryed clothes like that...of course I never even touched that...and i should have taken the two sausage bisquits out of the box in the freezer and thrown the box away....not happy..I did not say anything...he just kept going on and on and on...so I said well here take this drop so I can hurry up and get out of here I have alot to do...so he starts in telling me how he has tried to help me out and I just dont seem to appreciate what he has done for me....well that was it...I have heard that at least 10 times over the last 11 days of his constant care and I let him have it...told him I was sick and tired of hearing how much he has helped me out financially to completely change my life to help him...that it was unfair for him to keep throwing it in my face when I never asked to uproot my entire life and had only done it to improve his quality of life and that he never did it for me anyway...he did it for himself...and I finished off with how easy it must be to sit down and write a check that doesnt change your life in any kind of way than it is to completely change your life for someone and that it was him that didnt appreciate what I have done for him...then I told him that I have never in my life heard the words thank you come out of his mouth...2 more drops to put with at least 5 mins between...finished what I had to say and shut up...by the time last drop was in he was talking about how he had shaved earlier so he wouldnt have to do it in the morning before our 8 am appt with doctor...330 in the morning now and I am going out to put my trash out and shovel my driveway before 6am drops...perhaps I shouldnt vent on facebook like this but its all I have right now...
Posted on: Mon, 27 Jan 2014 08:26:45 +0000
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