10 Definite Signs He/She is the person for you!!!! 1. A good person never lets you forget how much he/she loves you. I cannot tell you how many conversations I have had with women who tell me that there is no affection in their relationship. The man/woman in their life does not make them feel loved, wanted, or appreciated. This is a profoundly important piece of the puzzle – a good man/woman will always remind you how much you mean to them. I understand men can be less communicative or affectionate than women are, but this does not excuse the severe lack of effort put forth by our generation. If someone truly loves you, you will know it and feel it. If they don’t, you’ll be wondering all the time if they do. 2. A good person always supports you. Regardless of whether you want to go back to school after 20 years to get your Master’s degree, start a singing career, or stay at home to raise a family, a good person will always support you and what you want out of your life. He/She will never discourage you or make you feel as though you can’t do what you set out to do. He will be beside you every step of the way, cheering on your victories and comforting you during your defeats. 3. A good person will work to gain your trust. A good man will want you to be comfortable and confident in your relationship. The very cornerstone of this is being able to trust someone, and he will realize that. Without trust there is no foundation for love or respect.He will understand that trust is not just handed over to someone – it has to be earned, and then it has to be kept. 4. A good person will always make you feel beautiful. He/She will understand that making you feel beautiful does not just mean saying the words to you. It will mean truly making you feel beautiful. In the way he/she looks at you, touches you, and treats you. He/she will notice details when you put effort into your appearance and remind you how attractive he/she still finds you even when you don’t. A good person will understand that whether you are in your sweatpants on the couch or in your evening gown, when you love someone for who they truly are, everything about them becomes beautiful. 5. A good person does the little things. Do you need a prescription filled but have to stay late at work? Did you mention an comedy show coming to town and he/she made plans to take you to see it? Regardless of how small certain things seem, he/she will understand they are really the big things that matter most. 6. A good person never crosses the line. It is natural to have disagreements and even arguments in a relationship – but there is no reason to make things personal, become insulting, and never, ever to become abusive. A good person will remain calm and stay on the topic at hand. Perhaps the most important point of all. Whether it be mentally, emotionally, or physically, a good man/woman will never even think about being abusive towards you or harmful in any way. If this happens to you – please have the courage and respect for yourself in order to talk to someone or walk away immediately. No good person would ever act like this and it will not get better on its own. 7. A good person understands actions speak louder than words. Having the right man/woman in your life will make you understand that people who make promises do not deserve your respect. People who keep promises deserve your respect, and he/she will be one of them. 8. A good person will open up to you. It can be difficult for some men/women to express their emotions, fears, and even inner-most desires – but having the right man/woman in their life often helps to open those doors. A good man/woman, while understanding of course some things are to be kept private, will not hide things from or bottle up feelings knowing it will cause tension and frustration. 9. A good person will always be honest with you. When building a foundation for a happy, healthy relationship, a good man/woman will understand that honesty is always the best policy. 10. A good man will stand by you no matter what. When a man commits his love and his time to a woman, there are no stipulations or circumstances required. There will be good times and there will be not-so-good times. There will be challenges and unexpected situations that arise. But he will stay by your side and be your teammate through it all. Of course, there is an asterisk on this. This does not mean you can disrespect him, lie, or cheat. It does not mean you can betray his trust and expect him to stick around because he promised to commit to you. This point is about things the two of you go through together and him having the integrity needed to not walk away when times get hard. Any man can be by your side on the sunny days. The real test of character is whether or not he will hold the umbrella over you during the stormy days. And ladies, if the man you are with puts in the effort to be this person for you, please let him know how much you appreciate him. No matter how kind a person is, there is no emptier feeling than giving your heart to someone who you feel takes it for granted. ...G.S.M
Posted on: Wed, 17 Dec 2014 07:36:00 +0000
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