10 THINGS YOU WISH YOU NEVER SAID TO YOUR SPOUSE These statements can hurt and cause lasting negative memories in a relationship. It is important to always ask yourself why you are saying these things. 1. You always do that: This is judgmental and implies that they never do anything right. 2. You will never change: This portrays them as resistant and inflexible. 3. I can’t forgive you for that: You see yourselves as always right. 4. You never do anything: It makes you come across as the one slaving to make the relationship work, while they do nothing. 5. Don’t think I cannot find someone better than you: This is a comparison game, which makes them feel they can never measure up. It can breed mistrust. 6. The problem with you is that you don’t think: It creates the impression that they cannot think. It is an insult. 7. Can’t you do anything right for once: It makes them appear incapable of getting anything right. 8. Why can’t you be better or as good as…: Comparing your partner to another person’s partner is unfair and will in turn become unproductive. They are different and unique. 9. There it goes… I told you so: This statement is intended to manipulate your partner. 10. I wish I never married you: This has the potential to sow seeds of mistrust and can lead to compromises.
Posted on: Tue, 12 Aug 2014 07:24:24 +0000
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