15 Tips to keep your internet r/ship intact ( bit old but useful) ======================================== 1.Try to talk every day for at least an hour or longer. Take out time to be online, and work around your schedules to have an uninterrupted hour together everyday. If this is not possible, try to get in touch through short email messages or SMS. 2.Avoid distraction. When youre talking to your significant other, talk to them exclusively, even if its just for a little bit. Its like the online equivalent of a date or talking on the phone, and if you can give them your undivided attention then, why not online as well? 3.Use programs that enable you to talk to them, such as the voice conversation feature of MSN or Skype. MSN and Emails are good, but nothing beats talking to someone. 4.Enforce the sense of closeness by asking him to play music for you over Voice Conversation, or using Voice Clips. If you both like, you could sing favorite songs together over VC, and take turns to play music for each other. 5.To keep the spice in the relationship, send each other random playful emails at unusual or unexpected times of the day. Theres nothing more pleasant than coming home after a long day and finding an unexpected sweet email waiting for you. 6.Remember important events, such as a test theyve been stressing about, and email them a good luck card (plenty of websites allow you to do so for free) 7.Play games together online. MSN offers some good online games, and several PC games can be played with a partner, such as Audi. This once again gives a feeling of closeness despite not being physically together. 8.Consider making a joint email account if you dont want anyone else to accidentally read an email your significant other sends you or visa versa. Make it something to do with you both, such as your names or birthdays or even favorite songs/bands, and send emails from your account to that account for them to read. 9.Play the Anywhere Anytime Anyhow game, which works great if you both have Blackberries (which allow instant email updates) where one person emails the other person a task and no matter what the persons doing, they have to complete the task (make the tasks fun!). 10.Be romantic and send the other person random gifts, which can work even if the couple lives in different countries by checking out websites that delivers flowers/teddies in their country and placing an order online. 11.Use MSN to your advantage. For MSN users, let your display pictures be pictures of the two of you, and sync your MSN nicks (such as both use a line from a song you both like, or have your personal message as a countdown for when you see them next). 12.Be involved in the other persons life. Sometimes having an online relationship can really work for you in the sense that you have things written down (in emails or conversations) and they make good reference to go over in case youre bad with names or cant keep incidents straight in you head, or simply want to double check something they said. Ask them specific questions which show that youre involved in their life. 13.Having a fight online is probably one of the worst things because its so easy to cut someone out if Internet is the only connection between you two. Also its hard to tell the tone from a bunch of words written on a page. Always, always, always take a step back, calm down before hastily replying and back off if you need to. Sometimes you may not mean something harsh, but the other person wont realize that and get hurt. 14.Limit joking/sarcasm to phone conversations. Sometimes people get mixed messages from being unable to tell the tone, and dont understand if it was said in a jocular manner or if the other person meant it. 15.Try each time you guys talk to make it interesting, dont make it to look like a boring chat, or she/he will lose interest in you! Usually, when you run out of ideas, or if you do the other should come up with other chat ideas, remember that running out of things to say will sooner or later go to a breakup! ================================================= A friend of mine emailed me and I thought of sharing
Posted on: Sun, 16 Mar 2014 20:23:43 +0000
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