#26565 (#cobra) Hi admin. & members, i just want to share something and need your suggestions, im LDR since 8 years when i was studying in 12th and he was doing MBBS, but yet he is not ready to take a proper step for our relationship, he is caring, supportive and helps me out id i need anything, when he went to USA for 6 months for his internship, we used to spend hours n hours on phone. Now he is back to India. I feel that now he should come and Meet my parents, Maine usko kaha bhi Lekin wo avoid Karl kaha hai, hum dono ab tak do baar mil chuke hai. about main chahti hu k ye rishta aage badhe, Lekin kaise? plz help me. Female, Allahabad. Cobra : PHILOSOPHY : Dont believe on words u hear ;rather believe on action cz action speaks louder. Practical approach : > uve met just twice in 8 years is itslf a sign that either u lack commitment or maturity. Try n fix a meeting as soon as possible. >when u meet tell him that u want to get married n u cant deny ur parents more :(they are pressurising me fr marriage .. > then watchout fr his reaction n analyse it carefully.. If he seriously lovea u he will be tensed fr sure ,maybe just fir a moment but he definately will be tnsd n sad.. If he doesnt he will not seem to be perturbed n he will keep on saying abhi thode din ruk jaao, aisa ni hoga yar, please mat ro, tum to janu ho n all such. >shoot at him a direct question if u love me then why cant u marry me ? If je seriously has a reason he will tell u maybe calmly or maybe in a nice way but if he seems to be thinking of flawaa (aa,,mmmhh an all such ) are signs he is making a story.. N if he says ni bata sakta ya baad me baat karte hai ya if he gets angry or statements such as tmhe bharosa ni kya mjhoe, thoda time aur do are all signs that he isnt serious . Hope it hlps n may consult me in page ib if u have a prblm
Posted on: Wed, 24 Sep 2014 14:00:27 +0000
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