28 WAYS TO HAVE A DEVOTIONAL TALK WITH UR PARTNER (Note..1): Hi Ladies & Gent, pls learn me Ur ears lets talk. Ar U d type who honor Ur Pastor than Ur partner? Or U ar d type who worship Ur Alfa than Ur partner. I beg frm where do u read that attitude frm d both Holy Book. Ill talk frm d Bible nw abt women, then talk frm d Quran abt me. Common lets go. Actions speak louder than words. U can say U respect Ur husband, bt he’ll have a hard time believing that unless Ur behavior backs it up. - Wht does respectful living look like?. Gone ar d days an husband talk & women hit back, if U do dt nw, my dear Elite Sis, U might live d rest of Ur life lonely. Obedent doesnt make u a follow-foloh as u may thought. Bt it give way to a lessure affair. Here r 28ways U can communicate respect to Ur spouse without uttering a word. If U’ll make it ur habit to do these thing , d next time U tell Ur man how much U respect him,he won’t have to wonder if U really mean it. - 1. Choose Joy: It’s true: A happy wife makes a happy life. Pls dn’t use moodiness as an attempt to manipulate ur man, bt in all things rejoice, bcus that’s d right thing to do. (1 Thes 5:16; Phils 4:4) - 2. Honor His Wishes: Giv weight to wht ur husband thinks is vital. Make those things a priority dt matter most to him, whether it’s having dinner ready whn he gets home frm wrk or keeping d house tidy or limiting computer time. Dn’t make him ask twice. ( Phil 2:4) - 3. Give Him Ur Undivided Attentn: Yes, I kno dt women ar masters of multi-tasking, bt whn Ur husband is speaking to U, make a point to lay other tasks aside, look into his eyes, & listen to wht he is saying with d goal of understanding &remembering his words. - 4. Don’t Interrupt: Have U ever been around a person who won’t let U finish a sentence? That gets old fast. Even if U think U already know wht ur husband is going to say, allowing him to say it wthout cutting him off mid-sentence shows both respect & common courtesy. - 5. Emphasize His Good Points: Sure, he has his faults (as do U), bt dwelling on them will only make U (both) miserable. Choose instead to focus on those qualities in Ur husband dt U most admire. ( Phil 4:8) - 6. Pray for Him: Ruth Graham advises wives to “tell ur mate d positive, & tell God d negative.” Take ur concerns to God. Faithfully lift up ur man in prayer every day, & Ull likely notice a transformatn nt only in him, bt in urself, as well. ( Philis 4:6-7; 1 Thess 5:17) - 7. Don’t Nag: Ur husband is a grown man, so don’t treat him like a 2-year-old. Leave room for God to work. U ar nt d Holy Spirit, so do not try to do His job. Even it take almost 3 months for Joseph to reason with Mary Mother of Jesus whn Mary was concive by d Spirit, yet upon Joseph furious, Mary nevr nag back, Holy sis where did u get ur own behaviour? - 8. Be Thankful: Cultivate an attitude of gratitude. Don’t take ur husband for grantd. B appreciative for everything he does for U, whether big or small. Always say thank U. ( 1 Thessa 5:18; Eph 5:20) - 9. Smile at Him: Smiles spread happiness. Smiles have even been shown to create happiness. Smiles are contagious & a smile makes any woman more beautiful. - 10. Respond Physically: Did u kno dt d way U respond (or dn’t respond) to Ur husband’s romantic overtures has a profound effect on his self- confidence? Dn’t slap him away whn he tries to hug U or make excuses whn he’s in d mood. Ur enthusiastic cooperatn & reciprocation will nt only assure him of Ur lov, bt will make him feel well-respected, too. ( 1Corins 7:3-5) - 11. Eyes Only for Him: Don’t compare Ur husband unfavorably to other men, real or imaginary. It is neither fair nor respectful&will only breed trouble & discontent. Avoid watching movies or reading book dt might cause U to stumble in this area, as well. ( Psalm 19:14; Prov4:23) - 12. Kiss Him Goodbye: I once read abt a study done in Germany which found dt men whose wives kissed them goodbye every morning were more successful than those who weren’t kissed. Success & respect often go hand-in-hand, so be sure to send him off right, & don’t forget to greet him with a kiss whn he returns home, for good measure. ( 2 Corin 13:12) - 13. Prepare His Favorite Foods: Although d rest of d family is nt overly-fond of spaghetti, my Man loves it, so I try to make it at least 2 or 3 times a month as a way to honor him. Next time U’re planning meals, give special consideration to Ur husband’s preferences. ( Pro 31:14-15) - 14. Cherish Togetherness: I love to sit near my husband, whether at home or away. Our church shares potluck dinners every Sunday afternoon, &although d men & women normally sit separately to visit, I like to position myself close enough to my husband that I can listen to d conversation, as I think everything he says is so interesting. @ home, I’ll take my book or handwrk to whtever room in d house he’s wrking in, just to be close to him, bcus I enjoy his company, even whn neither of us is talking. T.B.C..! - - .
Posted on: Tue, 19 Aug 2014 07:26:45 +0000
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