#584 Rahul Male 22 Manush er Vir e "Well....1st ei bole rakhi eta 1ta long post....so keep patience while reading it. Now ami amr kichu experience share korchi den amar kichu problems er kotha bolbo....pray 3 yrs age jkn ami clg e 1st e pori tokhn amr 2nd time brk up hoy....as a impact amr 2nd sem er result khub kharap hoy....sei somoy amar ek classmate k ami amr friend hisabe pai....she used to console me each nd every day.....we used to talk for very long hours......gradually we became closed to each other.....o amak onek support diyechilo....den one day I proposed her nd she rejected it...coz or mone hoechilo tate amader friendship ta nasto hobe.....ami mene ni nd oke r pressure dey ni....er por thke amader bonding ta ro valo hoy....we were like best friends.....ei vabei 2 yrs kete jay....o single chilo tokhn....ami or best friend chilum..... But problem start hoyeche one month thke....She is seeing a guy....And o committed o hoye geche tar thke....But eta te amr kono problem nei....I accepted it for the sake of our friendship......oke ami kichu bolini.....normal thakar try korchi.....bt kono motei ami eta matha thke tara te parchi na.....dnt know khub kharap lagche....kono kaj e concentrate korte parchi na....khub low lagche.....oke ami ei gulo bolte o parchi na.....coz o new life suru koreche....or kharap lagbe..... I need suggestions admin....plz help me....ki kore overcome korbo ami????" ~CrE@ToR: your feelings are result of three things, possessiveness obsession crush you have to understand that she helped you as a friend. and that means you have to be grateful to her, not the other way around. she could have easily cut the ties with you but she did not and that just fueled your obsession with her. and lastly its pretty common for boys of your age to develop a crush on the person who helps you during or after your so called break up. quite natural. and this feeling of yours, this lowly feeling and downward mood will again change as soon as you develop a new crush. trust me thats what happens every day with countless boys and girls alike. fruit of age this is. if you really want to get out of this, concentrate on your hobbies, if you have any. listen to soft and soothing music. go out and interact with people, it does not always has to be friends. try to meet and observe new people outside. explore your surroundings. thats all.
Posted on: Fri, 12 Jul 2013 09:23:43 +0000
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