#723 Female 20 Student We were jst classmates...and share a very strong bond of friendship in jst 6 months...He use to share all his secrets to me...n i use to help him in his studies...and since we were too good frnds hence he asked for many certin thngs lyk to work his part of assignment too,,,The things started to change...n i got the idea that hex being more then a frnd... his gestures,way of taking,verbal care and possesivness started to increase more n more by each day.i openly told him that em not intrsted in him in gf bf thng....n he said that he too doesnt want to b in realtionship... But on the other hand he started ordering me upon many things as bfs does which started to create conflicts between us...he strted fighting on many lil issues lyk repling late to his txts, taking to other male classmates etc... I kept ignoring and the things kept on gng same till 4 more months n i didnt reacted..Moreover i kept on taking him in my presentation and assignment groups and helped him equally as i use to. .. But one day he strted objecting about my character,calling me a slut and saying bad things to me regarding my character....i dont wana use the same words as that hurts... That was the limit of patience as a friend for me... N that was the first time i strtd to question me how cud he say dat to me without any proof or evidences...and stopped talking to him.. After a few days when every thing cooled up i asked him again if he still agrees with watever he said before.. n he said yeah he does... And that was the day i said to him dat if he doesnt respect me he doesnt deserv my friendship..Since to me i can never compromise my self respect in any case from dat day till today it had been more then 2 months and i didnt talked to him a word... Later on a training opportunity was given to me to make a group and do it with dat...in which i didnt invited him due to his behvr... Later on i knew by a common frnd that when he knew dat i did dat aLone he was mad dat i cud she do soo to meee Now i dont know bt my mind is always burdened that if i have done ryt or wrong to him... Since we were too gud frnds every one around us asks abt him that where is he n why u ppl are not talking.. More over being too gud frnds i really miss him but it also hurts equally that how cud sum1 who knows u so much cud say u in dat way :( :( #Rey: Hon, you did nothing wrong. You have everyright to react against things you dont want. And there is no rule that a bf can order any thing to his gf and vice versa. A bf-gf thing is no dictatorship. And, the guy who mentioned here doesnt deserve you. He is just a jerk. Another ordinary frog you neednt kiss (as in fairy tales). Let this jerk stay away from you. :) Stay blessed
Posted on: Sat, 27 Jul 2013 16:59:49 +0000
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