86ii beast in him, to oveipower others, diverts his vigour and energies in the right direction in fighting the enemies of Allah, in his cause, he wourld be acting as the Ahlullah do. Acting to the contrary is acting stupidly. Dear friend, Ghaiz-o-Ghazab i.e. the beast like wrath can turn into dilirium tremens which can only be treated by the medication af Sheereen-e-Hilm (the Sweet tasting Sauvity) and Talkhi-e-Sabr (the sour dose of patience), put together. The medical compound (Majoon) of Ilm-o-Amal (The embodiment of knowledge and approved behaviour) is its panacea. The ingredients of Ilm comprise Aayate Qurani (Verses from the Holy Book), the Ahadith (Sayings of the Holy Prophit (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and the veritable stories of the Buzurgane Din who have lit the way for us by their luminous conduct par excellence. If you pounce upon a helpless weaker person than you in ungodly wrath and maul him due to your savage uncontrolled ego, you will in fact be challenging Allah and invoking his wrath. You will not be able to get away with making excuses that the resultant damage was caused by the •Marzi (will) of Allah. This would tantamount to interfering with His (Raboobiyat) Omnipotence. A wolf is not rational but you are. Dont ascribe his traits to yourself or your traits to him. Dont be harsh to your slaves. They may have a valid excuse. In any case, do not forget that they are dependent upon you and down trodden. Nothinjj except mercy should be advanced to them. You are responsible for their welfare. Cruelty will only bring you to disrepute. 869 The sages have advised that when a man loses control over himself, he should say: (I seek Allahs protection from Allah against the accursed Satan. It is in the Hadith. Moreover, if the man be standing in such a state of anger, he should sit down. If he is sitting, he should lie down and try to cool himself down. If it fails, he f should perform Wuzzoo (ablutions) with cold water as it is in the Hadith that the basic cause of wrath is its fire and water extinguishes it. There is also a Rivayat that the man in anger should then perform Sajda on the Mitti naked earth, touching his head with it. He should remember that it is dust unto to dust. He is made of dust and has got to go to dust. He should feel ashamed of himself and say that it does not behave me to be angry. One day Hazrat Umar (Allah be pleased with him) asked for some water to douche his nose with it as he was feeling angry and said that anger is due to the Shaitan (Satan) . This is its treatment. ■■■ . **■ One day Hazrat Abu Zar Ghiffari (Allah be pleased with him) addressed a person Ya, Ibnul Hamra, in anger (implying obliquely that you are the son of the Laundi Alhamra. She was black), thus trying to find a fault with him. The Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) heard it andVfsaid, Oh Abu Zar, you should remember that 870 you are not better than any black or red person. Hazrat Abu Zar Ghaffaris face was mantled with shame. He apologized humbljr. Hazrat Aisha Siddtq Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to advise His wife Hazrat Aisha Siddiqa (Allah be pleased with her) to deal with Narmi (Sauvely! with people, for, every thing done sauvely and courteously comes to a successful end. Vive versa, things are likely to go haywires. HASSAD - JEALOUSY AND ITS DANGERS 879 Anger gives rise to spite and spite creates jealousy in man. And jealousy is lethal. So much so, that the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has said that Hassad i.e. the jealousy usurps the Naikees, the good in man, the way fire swallows the wood. He added that everybody has three things; tendency to have Budgumani (doubt : Suspicion), Hassad (Jealousy) and a conceived Buri Fal (Bad augury). When you become a prey to Bud Gumani dont get involved in its investigation. Just remove the thought from your mind. Dont depend on bad angries. And. if Hassad viz jealousy is created in your heart against someone, Cheek your hand and heart from acting against him, firmly. Once the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) stated that evil traits of Hassad (Jealousy) and Adawat (Enmity) have started raising their head in you. Many people (Qaums) have been ruined by it before you. They kill the Eiman and I swear by My Allah that the essence of Eiman lies in the faithful, loving each other. The secret of brotherly love is contained in behaving with apparent winning manners and affectionate way with the faithful. Say, SalarrY (Convey sentiments of peace and good wishes to the other) to each other. There should be warmth - real warmth in it. Hazrat Moosa Alai Uas Salam (Prophet Moses) saw a person installed under the Arsh (High Heavens). He was curios to know his name. He, humbly asked Allah, Who is he? The Allah did not tell him, his name but said, Moosa! Let Me tell you he is that man who did not indulge in Hassad or 883 Gheebat of anyone and re-nained obedient to his old and infirm parents. Hazrat Zakariyy Alai Has Salam used to tell his people that a Hassid is theit unfortunate person who spurns Allahs rewards and blessings, every time he gets an opportunity to refran from his nefarious habit of being jealous to others. The Holy Prophet (p
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