A few months ago I made a post wherein I speculated that about 50% of marriages (or perhaps paperless marriages) were just MEDIOCRE-middle-of-road-MUNDANE ho hum hook ups. 😐😕😐😕😐😕😐😕😐 And that 25 % were pure crap and headed for the commode..or should be. 💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩 The other 25% were somewhere between really good to fabulously hot n juicy! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Today...I stick to those numbers. 😝😁😝😁 Those in the upper 25% know what to do AND they are doing it: FEED DA FIYAH! Those in the bottom 25% know what to do AND they are doing it: FLUSH But the middle of the road dont know if they should be humming (😳😁now THERES an idea) or whistling Dixie. And they do NONE. OF. IT. There they are...STUCK. IN. THEIR. INDIVIDUAL. RUTS!! Neither one GIVING...and therefor ...neither one receiving. Miserable. Mundane. Monotonous. They come home....one to Facebook all evening...one to the tube all evening. One to this hobby...the other to that hobby. One to Netflix...the other to working in the yard. They come come from from work to their SHARED HOME to their INDIVIDUAL LIVES. They drift off to sleep in their shared bed to individual dreams. No pillow talk...but perhaps pillows wet with silent salty tears. Or worse yet...to separate beds in separate rooms...separated by a 6 wall...but a lifetime apart. SOMEBODY HAS TO STEP UP!! 🆙🆙🆙🆙🆙🆙🆙🆙🆙 Somebody has to take the HIGH ROAD. Somebody has to INITIATE. THERE IS HELP for those who SEEK HELP! There are books! But you must read AND APPLY! There is professional help. There are spiritual leaders to counsel with. There are loving friends & family to learn from. There are ways to EXTRACT YOURSELF from the mundane mud....if YOU want to be extracted. Some feel they CANT change. Nonsense. YOU CAN. Some WONT change. And so they wallow....and silently weep. The course of YOUR relationship can change as soon as YOU CHANGE. It all starts with VERY SIMPLE STUFF typically. 1. Swallow your pride. Good and hard. 2. Speak softer...with less edge. 3. Touch. And touch more. And GENTLY. 4. Point the finger at YOU...not your companion. 5. SERVE! Thats correct. You read it right. Have a servants ❤️! 6. Express LOTS of gratitude. 7. Gift SMALL gifts...to let your companion know youre thinking about them. 8. Text thoughtful notes while youre apart. #shortANDsweet 9. Give COMPLIMENTS! 10. Sleep NAKEY at least one night a week. 😜 #iSAIDatLEAST 😝 11. BONUS....ACTIVELY participate sumpin the OTHER enjoys! These ^^^^ are EXTRACTORS. I encourage each of us to use them......appropriately and regularly. Xoxo
Posted on: Fri, 12 Dec 2014 15:12:00 +0000