A good marriage is a promise to stay together through thick and thin. To love and cherish one another till the end of time. But when a man is done the story will change, and a once beautiful wife will become a trash. Everything that used to work will stop working and a once peaceful home will become a battle field. He will start complaining about anything and everything just to frustrates the wife. He will curse her for not giving birth on time and complain for giving birth to just female kids and not giving him a boy. He will blame her for gaining weight after four kids and tell her shes not as beautiful as when they got married twelve years ago. He will blame her for having stretch marks and condemn her for not having a flat tummy anymore. The very first day a married man starts cheating is the beginning of the end. He will loose interest in his wife and condemn and criticize anything she does. A woman who truthfully and faithfully loves him and went through a lot with him will become an old cargo that must not be seen in public with her. She tells her to file a divorce after twenty five years of marriage with five kids involved. Some men lack the fear of GOD. A reckless man ruins his own life,claiming its only one life to live. But when the results come,he will say its the devil or his enemies at work. He abandoned his wife at home and sleeps around with her daughters age-mate because he has money to get whatever he wants. He says many bad things about his innocent wife just to get as many woman as he wants. He lodge the mistress in a hotel and lied to the wife that hes traveling on a business trip abroad. While the wife is having a sleepless lonely nights, the husband is having a busy night with another woman. He care less about her sorrow and grief. Unbearable is the pain some women experience in their matrimonial journey of life. It becomes more painful when no one understands her pain. Most people wish they have a perfect marriage like her,s but little did they know that whats behind six is far bigger than seven and eight. Most married women lives in big mansion and drive big cars but still feel empty in life. Those who say they will rather be miserable with a rich man than to be happy with a poor man has never experienced the true meaning of pain in their journey of life. When a woman cannot find happiness in her matrimonial home, every other place becomes a prison. Even if she goes out with friends to avoid the stress at home, the moment she comes back home the stress comes back again. When a woman is emotionally drained in a marriage, the soul and body go separate ways. But a blind man makes love to the body thinking he sleeping with his wife. When a woman feels nothing anymore, then the time is up. A done woman is a gone woman. When she makes up her mind, thats the end of the road. Any attempts afterwards is like trying to raise the dead. A woman in love is not a fool, shes only giving you many second chances because shes still in love. She was enduring your wickedness because she wants to save her home. When a woman is finally done shes totally gone. Appreciate what you have before it becomes what you used to have. Its funny when a good woman breaks up with a miserable man and the next thing he says is You will never find a man like me. While will she break up with you if she wants a man like you. You didnt love her, you were only using her to your own advantage. You never loved her at any point. You are either afraid of been lonely or you just want to fulfill the social status of a married man. You proposed to her because she was good for your ego and dead self esteem. You think she cant do without you because you have made it big. She is the only one who truly loves you. She accepts you and makes you feel good about your miserable life. You never loved her because if you truly love her, you will not destroy her. You can never destroy what you cherished and love with all your heart. A good woman is one of the greatest blessing any man can get from GOD. But some men lost a precious diamonds while collecting ordinary stones in their journey of life. There are only two ways to regret in life,BEFORE AND AFTTER. Those who choose to regret after might end up regretting for the rest of their life. Life is not about how you start but where you end. Your final destination is more important than your present situation in life. When old age and nemesis catch up with some men, thats when they realized, they have lived a meaningless life of waste. ........Enough for the wise men.
Posted on: Tue, 11 Nov 2014 16:54:32 +0000
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