A lot of times I dont think we as women are honest about our market value. Lets be REAL honest. Having children by multiple men lowers your stock value(not your value as a person). You cant be in your 30s with children by more than one man and think that you can demand the same type of man you could in your early 20s when and if you were childless. You(we) come with MUCH more responsibility now. So as women we have to be able to make some concessions. Not settling, but concessions and compromises. You might have to revise your check list, and first of all make sure that everything that you want in a mate already resides in you. I never understand the arrogance of Single Mothers, I really dont. I am not saying that you(we) should be pitied, but we do need to be much more humble when we are essentially asking a man to share the consequences of a choice that we made, and he wasnt even present at the time we made those choices. Regardless if we have children or not, a lot of us suffer from Delusions of Grandeur when it comes to the type of men we think we deserve or want; most of the time we are shooting for men that we arent even qualified for. #TheAgitator
Posted on: Mon, 06 Oct 2014 12:09:45 +0000
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