A lot of women are married to men who are not as rich and well to do as they wished their men would be, and if they are not careful, their men will stay in that position for a long time. A lot of men are married to women they are struggling appreciate as wives, and if they are not careful, the women will stay in that same lane that get them ( the men) upset each time they see them. If a woman makes a man feel directly or indirectly incapable, not good enough or well to do enough like other men are, she offends the man in spirit and starts a seed of bitterness in him which is not easily rooted out due to the persistent nature of the womans actions. Such a man goes to God angry and bitter and his prayers are hindered because his heart is not right before God. Such a man may also seek to work hard to be good enough and to prove a point and in so doing works with the wrong motives, and may not prosper in his ventures. Because her actions provoke the man, leading to a closed heaven over their home, she in turn is further frustrated and may do something untoward in the end, not being aware she is the actual cause of the problem. If a woman wants to make her man better ( unless he is a proven lazy and wasteful person) she must support him and build him up with acts and words of encouragement, constant support and love. Such a man fills his heart with gratitude and peace and his prayers are not hindered because his heart is right before God. And if he seeks out any venture, God blesses it because his motives are pure. In the same way, if a man makes a woman look less and worthless in her own eyes, her tears go up before God and God keeps each one of them and remembers them. Momentarily it may appear the woman is the victim while the man flies high, hopping from one bed to the other, one venture to the other and seemingly succeeding. The leash of God is a long one...but has an end. In the right time He will rein in such a man and a good woman will receive her vengeance of the Lord. This man will surely come with his tail between his legs. Build your wife up with your words and actions. Where you find an inability, enable her in the most thoughtful way possible. Her heart of gratitude opens the doors of heaven to you. No blessing dwells in the tents of tears Goodnight. PG Sebastian Follow me on Twitter @PGPaedia | Like my Facebook page
Posted on: Mon, 24 Nov 2014 21:54:19 +0000