A new paradigm on arguments: the cause is two people (or countries) each convinced that they are being wronged (playing victim role), trying to convince the other to agree. It escalates from there in a Race for victim position. Sadly, this can go on for lifetimes (or even centuries in the case of countries/tribes/factions). Once you recognize this, theres no reason to continue: who would knowingly choose to be/play a victim? Take responsibility for 100% of creating and resolving the argument. If both parties take full responsibility theres a chance of win-win resolution. Awareness is the first step in transformation!!
Posted on: Sun, 11 Jan 2015 05:48:32 +0000
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