A very beautiful approach to co-parenting and the blending of modern families. I talk about this in my book and as a step-parent myself I can say with certainty: You can never have too many people in this world caring authentically and respectfully about your children. We dont often see the media portray step-parents or divorced parents in a positive light. (Case in point: The photo to this piece hints at the stereotype of Dad leaving Mom for a hot, younger blonde. :head desk: ) This letter is a great example of how to do it right! With grace, openness, kindness, and as a team effort. Youre going to see us (the kids, mostly, but also my husband and me) quite often. Youre going to find yourself sitting with us at concerts, plays, games, graduations and many other events. It will feel awkward at first, maybe, but I hope that changes quickly. While the kids know very well that their father and I are divorced and done, they need to know that we are united in our support of them, and this is one of the many ways we will unapologetically display that support. I want them to look out at the audience while on stage and see all of us together watching them with pride and excitement. Many of my friends have asked me if sitting between their father and stepfather feels weird. I have done weirder things to esteem, encourage, teach and build my sons. (Singing ridiculous songs about potty training is the first thing that comes to my mind.) This is no sweat. I ask that you join us (when you are ready) and become part of the united front that supports them unconditionally. -Tina Plantamura huffingtonpost/tina-plantamura/an-open-letter-to-my-exhu_b_6459466.html
Posted on: Tue, 13 Jan 2015 17:45:00 +0000
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