ADMIN PLS I BEG FOR ANONYMITY. I AM DYING IN SILENCE Inform me when u post it. I am a guy of 34, yet to get married. I was compelled to relocate from Abuja to Aba due to the new job I was pursuing in Aba. Initially, I was staying with my close relative in Aba until this childhood friend of mine asked me to come over to his residence, bcos he wanted me to assist him in one project he was carrying out and needed me to be very close and available. My friend’s name is Ifeanyi and he is married with kids. The couple are both working- class. I started to live in Ifeanyi’s house and helping him in his project work as he wants pending the time I get the job I was pursuing and rent my own apartment. In the beginning, it was so good and the wife was so open-minded, caring and each time with a bright-face. Just recently, Ifeanyi and I have completed the work, of which I did 90 percent of it all for him, free of charge as a friend. Coincidentally and luckily, I got the job I have been pursuing, but am yet to secure an apartment due to financial challenge, bcos I have not saved enof money for that. And as a childhood friend, I continued to stay with Ifeanyi and family. My friend Ifeanyi is so good that he is not worried about my continued stay in his house. We move about together and do things together. Now, these days, I noticed some changes in his wife’s attitude. She no longer feels free with me, she no longer talks freely with me, her face is always gloomy anytime she sees me around. At times, when I greet her, she will not respond, even though she is younger than me. I am beginning to suspect that I am no longer wanted by her in that house. Or, probably, she is not happy that I have got my own job, to be working like them. I am beginning to suspect that she was earlier deriving joy from the fact that I have no job at that time. All of us are graduates but am far better than she and her hubby in terms of qualifications. This change in her attitude has been affecting me psychologically. I AM DYING IN SILENCE. They give me food whenever it is meal time quite alright, but to me, it is not all about food, after all I was not starving when I was staying with my close relative, and I never for once asked Ifeanyi to accommodate me in the first place. So I wonder why I should be subjected to this psychological trauma. I have thought of going back to where I came from but I don’t know how my friend will look at it. So, friends, wot do u advise me to do before I die of psychological effect? Mature advice pls.
Posted on: Thu, 13 Jun 2013 15:21:44 +0000
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