ADVICE TO THE SINGLES OUT THERE My dear singles, Dont be forced to,desperate or in haste trying to set up a family(marriage). Dont forget the adage that says,he who goes before His creator,makes an endless race. Be patient so that you dont get disappointed with Gods appointed time. I think now is a given opportunity for you to readjust and prepare yourself against any impending obstacle or challenge that might intend to attack your future marriage. A hurly-burly market,closes in a hurly-burly manner. It is important we NOTE some facts that left so many old/new marriages in tribulations,asperity,heartache,heartbreak,misery,agony,discomfort,excruciating,affliction,swamp or predicaments, so that we dont fall a second-hand victim. FACT ONE MARRIAGE AND TIMING Many marriages are experiencing many sorts of difficulties today not because the couples are not meant to be together but because the timing of their marriages was wrong. In this situation the couples may be truly in love but because of some circumstances or inadequate planning,they got married before the desired time. And you will see such marriage collapsing,declining,depreciating instead of appreciating. That takes us back to the saying that,if one fails to plan,he plans to fail. FACT TWO SENTIMENTAL MARRIAGE In this manner people will be thinking that they can manoeuvre nature. Let me marry him/her since we have dated for ages,because if I decided to leave him/her people may consider it as maltreatment or she/he may be heartbroken,whereas you never loved him/her for marriage from day one. That is,trying to fulfil all righteousness. I dont have any other option,let me marry him since my people insist I must marry him because he has been financially supportive to our family. His manhood is very small and he is not very good in bed although he is living comfortable,let me marry him and set an extra- marital affair to satisfy my feelings,after all many people do it. I never loved him but let me marry him because hes a figure(star). I accepted his marriage proposal because he sponsored me in the university. Although I loved him earlier in stage when we met,but I dont feel for him anymore. He is damn an illiterate,if I decide to leave his life now,he might die or go against me spiritually. Age is not my friend again,let me marry him since all my friends and colleagues have all gotten married. How would you cope? FACT THREE ASSUMPTION MARRIAGE My aim is to be an expatriate. Let me marry him because all his brothers are based abroad. And they may take him along someday. What happens if he is not granted the opportunity to travel out? I have been on the street hustling for many years with no better achievement. But there is this lady who promised to change my life if I accepted to marry her;she has money. Ill accept,after all money changes everything.......but shes far older than me.(Should be 4or5yrs lesser to my mums age). It has been five years he finished his NYSC with no job. Let me marry him after all he has potential,and might be opportune to work with Oil company or Bank tomorrow. I have vowed not to marry a businessman. What if he turns a businessman tomorrow? Examine your thoughts today and make a cherish able tomorrow.... Ka Chineke mezie okwu
Posted on: Tue, 11 Mar 2014 11:34:47 +0000
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