ALWAYS BE YOURSELF (The real you) Sometimes we get confused on the adage that says "ALWAYS BE YOURSELF". When people say "be yourself", does it include, the person in the most natural, comfortable state, or does it also include the person who is striving to "CHANGE" or does it include those that are filled with bad attitude in them. Some people are born of different background, character, some dependent and some are born independent. Some people born in a poor background find themselves grown up in some odd ways and they see it as a suitable way of life and some involve in so many atrocities in order to survive. They are not the ones refering to be their own selves. In this situation they need to apply total CHANGE and TRANSFORMATION. Being the "real you" or "always be yourself" can be in a positive or negative manner, when your real self is attached to negative ways, my dear you need the total transformation for a better life. There are natural instinct in every man which tells us when things are in good shape or not, not when you are being corrected from your wrong deeds, all you can say is you are trying to live your life and being your real self. So your real self is being in every motels in town, your real self is dating every woman and every man that comes your way, your real self is breaking every hearts, your real self is duping everyone that comes in contact with you. My dear the earlier we remove that ugly mindset the better. I understand that "being yourself" is the tendency of being your "GOOD NATURAL SELF". But i believe someone can be transformed to be better without going off his/her usually real self. It is ok to want to change for the better, when you change for the better , look into yourself, you can most likely find things that you want to improve, such as your generosity or your kindness. Pinpointing small characteristics like those can help you change into who you want to be and still be yourself, just transformed. This way you are a better person, which is the most important thing. The best way to know "whats really you" and the "potential real you" is to be comfortable with who you are and your actions. If you are comfortable with how you are acting, it is indicating that "that is the real you". So basically dont try to force yourself to be anything, atleast too fast cos change takes time. "Being real you" is meant for people that have that goodness in them, people born with decency in them, people with fear of God in them. They are the people refering to "always be your own self" not people with bad attitude who need total change and transformation. So my dear friends, "always be yourself" when you know that your real self is of GOOD and of GOD. Dont deceive yourself. Happy weekend. #Sunky#
Posted on: Sat, 24 Aug 2013 16:09:10 +0000
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