AND I WAS FREED FROM MATRIMONIAL BONDAGE When she threatened to abandon me and go for a better husband, many thought it was just an empty threat influenced by mere anger. when she further ranted that she would show me and that she was dating more prosperous men, many thought she was too decent to do that. But I never doubted these bitter words because I had (long before) seen the signals. Today I have been vindicated. My ex-wife, Hajia Faruza, is now a new wife to a new husband. This dramatic shift of matrimonial home by Hajia Faruza has come less than three months after she had parked from my house for allegations and counter-allegations of infidelity. A disturbed friend described the drama as an opportunistic secondhad wife nocturnally arranged for a willing standby husband. it is shocking news to many. But with a high sense of stoicism and with prior knowledge of the prelude, I accept the misfortune as a divine order. admittedly, I will forever miss Hajia Faruza whom I turned from an academic nonentity as an SSS Failure to an academic entity as a First Class Graduate. In fact, I secured university admission for her, paid fees for her, did all major assignments for her, and eventually wrote a Long Essay for her. However, the agony associated with missing her will perpetually be compensated by my freedom from the devilish antics of her mother - character assassination, spiritual warfare, unrealistic demands, provocative control, and unwarranted insults on me and my family. call it freedom from matrimonial bondage, and you are right. This drama, which adds to the voluminous literature of betrayal, ingratitude, and infidelity in marital affairs, calls for celebration instead of mourning. Indeed, it is victory for enemies and friends. While enemies have every right to celebrate the satanic victory of division, friends are entitled to the celebration of the moral victory of vindication. I sincerely congratulate the new husband and wish the ex-wife a successful marriage, as they enjoy a period of honeymoon at a secret location. Yes! Hajia Faruza abandoned me, and I was freed from matrimonial bondage.
Posted on: Sun, 28 Sep 2014 16:00:23 +0000