ASKING FOR HELP is one of the BEST things we can do when we have unmet needs. If we were about to fall off a cliff, or needed rescuing, we wouldnt hesitate to call, yell, cry out for help... .... and yet, when it comes to LESS URGENT matters, we tend to think of ourselves as LONE ISLANDS - needing to DO IT ALONE. We sit in silence, suffering, hoping, hurting, failing, and beating ourselves up, wondering what the HECK we are doing wrong. One of the things that SUCCESSFUL people do, is ASK FOR HELP from people who are more experienced or qualified - or whose job or EXPERTISE it is to help people like them to get the results or outcomes they need. ASSUMING we know it all, or that we SHOULD be able to get out of it alone is nothing short of crazy. Your life should be dedicated to what you are GOOD AT and getting better at stuff you WANT to be good at. You dont need to grow the trees, chop down the wood, get it ready for timber, drive the trucks to the depot, sell yourself the wood, and do the building yourself. You either buy the house complete or you pay someone to build it for you (unless your job is building/property development). We are good at what we are good at, and others are good at helping people like us to get what we need. It is a WASTE OF LIFE to SIT IN SUFFERING and HOPE that one day, maybe, we might get out of the current situation causing us pain, struggle, suffering. WORK OUT WHAT YOU WANT and NEED, and START ASKING for help from people who can HELP YOU to get what you want and need. Can you be happy without stuff? Sure. But if you want some result, dont sit in silent pain. You may have to pay for the help, but if you find the right person/program/service, it will ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS be WAY more than worth it. To YOUR success and happiness. x
Posted on: Mon, 25 Nov 2013 00:21:19 +0000
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