AT WORK One has to remember that the people who are associates at work are not at all concerned with your inner life. That is your work to do; they have their own inner lives to work out. Your work colleagues have their own negative moods, their own personal problems and anxieties, just as everybody else, including you, has. But when you are in a working situation with somebody, you need not bring these things in, because if they start bringing in all their negativities and you start bringing in all of yours, it will be a never ending process. If you are feeling negative, do something. For example, write out a very negative thing and burn it. Go to the therapy room, beat a pillow and throw it. Do a terrible dance! You have to work it out; it is your problem. And once in a while it is good to ask whoever is working with you whether you have been negative, if they are feeling hurt. Because sometimes you may not know that you have been negative. Small gestures, just a word, even a silence, can be hurtful; the way you look at someone can be hurtful. So once in a while ask their forgiveness. Tell them, Every time I ask you, you have to be honest. Just tell me, because I am a human being and sometimes things can go wrong from my side and I have to put them right. -OSHO https://youtube/watch?v=1pNkb8BjlUQ
Posted on: Tue, 16 Sep 2014 11:31:39 +0000