Abe re TRUST is about YOU not others: (Transcript)(SOOOO GOOD!!): Hotseater: I want to trust men. So, I heard you say on one of your tapes one time when you were talking to a woman…… Abe: (interrupts) You dont want to trust men! Hotseater: I do! Abe: You dont want to trust men. You want to be able to think about men and feel good at the same time. Get rid of THAT trust word, that TRUST word will trip you up! In other words, you want to be able to think of a man or think of men or think of yourself with a man or think of yourself in a relationship with a man and feel good at the same time! And YOU have to train YOURSELF to do THAT. And when you do, one that feels like THAT, can COME to you You see. There are so many words like love and trust and worthiness,that just activate all this chaos in you. And trust is really one of those words. How do you trust? Well tell you what you can trust. You can TRUST that Law of Attraction will MATCH you up with what youre PUTTING OUT THERE. So instead of saying: I dont trust men say: Ive been offering a vibration that brings to me stuff I dont want, I think Ill change my vibration. So now suddenly its not about whether theyre trustworthy or not, its about whether youre practiced in your vibration. WHOLE different thing, isnt it? When you say: no, this isnt an issue of being able to trust them, this is an issue of me being able to sooth myself into a place that I can let the things in, that I want in. Im in charge of what comes to me. You and so many others are saying: “You need to be different so I can feel better” And we say: “Good luck because they don’t owe it to you and they don’t even care about you.” It’s not because they are bad. It’s because they are selfishly orientated too! You finally got to say: “I’m selfishly orientated - you’re selfishly orientated - I’m selfishly orientated – you’re selfishly orientated” And then in time you‘ll be able to stop saying: “You need to do something different, you need to take me into inconsideration FIRST” Because what you are saying to them is: “You have to give up what matters most to you”! Now there are lots of churches, there are a lot of social structures that will teach, that is the way you are suppose to be. But it goes cross current of the nature of the Universe! Everyone is orientated from the perspective of SELF and you care passionately about how YOU FEEL! Feel the difference between saying: “You care more about you than you do about me and that hurts my feelings” And saying: “You care more about you than you do me and that’s NORMAL!!!”(laughter) And - “I care about me more than I do about you and THAT’S NORMAL!” And what’s NOT normal is - “Me thinking if I care about how you care about me, that you’ll be about able to change how you care about me so that I will feel better” THAT’S never gonna work! So then you say: “Oh so you care more about YOUR feelings than you do MY feelings – OH YEAH that’s how we ALL ARE – NEVER MIND” (laughter) And then you don’t say: “I can’t TRUST you to do what I need you to do” You say: “I trust you to do what YOU NEED TO DO and I wouldn’t ask you to distort your experience and do what I need you to do because that could never last, that’s why I’ve concluded - NONE OF YOU ARE TRUST WORTHY!” “NONE of you are willing to give up what is most important to you for me!” “I’ve been barking up the WRONG tree ALL this time” “SO what I want to do is beat the drum of who I am – PURELY and CLEARLY and PROUDLY and the Universe will bring someone to me who MATCHES ME! I CAN TRUST THAT!!!” (Youtube below:) https://youtube/watch?v=V_ZyWFJrw4o&feature=youtu.be
Posted on: Mon, 18 Aug 2014 21:08:14 +0000
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