Accepting those things we cannot change frees us. Its so easy to get caught up in other peoples lives. Assuming that we know whats best for them seems so natural. Many of us have excelled at being caretakers, but its time to back off and let our loved ones fend for themselves. That means letting them make their own decisions and live with their own consequences. We cant change other people. Certainly we have made others feel guilty enough so that they have given in and done things our way. And we have won many power struggles. But ultimately we cant claim ownership of anyone elses mind, and we arent the stewards of anyone elses life. We may feel diminished by our lack of control initially, but in time we will love the freedom of living only our own lives. The extra time well have and the peace well know will comfort us. I will experience many moments of relief and peace when I let others be their own stewards.
Posted on: Mon, 28 Oct 2013 12:34:49 +0000
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