After all is said and done, I still find myself wondering if my son just stays with the wealthy foster people, whether the scales were tipped to make it impossible on purpose or not, whether he goes to a group home. I got one in home closure visit but there is little true closure. And I think how sad it is that trauma survivors say, in spite of how bad dcfs bungholed your family and made a lot of bad guess work based on simply not understanding your family, your survival and recovery story is inspiring. Then you get society and dcfs... Well, maybe, instead of sensationalizing predators and forgetting what they do when theyve been put behind bars, and are now out of sight and out of mind, perhaps we could offer some support, and not make entire families to blame for the actions of perps and like we almost wish theyd die or vanish... If I had been supported, maybe my kids and I wouldnt have suffered as much... But everyone turns their backs, makes up gossip, glorifies the bad guy, and families fall through the cracks... I am doing remarkably well at my job. The combined years of lack of family and community support because they simply did not understand either, and the worst botched dcfs case possibly of all times, there are moments one wants to do a tally of how many of these we simply did not understand folks would be cool with we simply wouldnt have cared if that guy killed you all and how many still wish we were dead or gone, as the outpouring of support is still very sarcastically tremendous as mom, who was also duped and abused and sedated by a predator who had a couple of decades under his belt by the time we met, so he had mastered his monsterous art and had a silver tongue... Well could we maybe say she was a victim too and lucky to be alive and not oh she had to know and didnt care he was abusing her kids... Compassion is a very groovy thing you wont find often in society and never from dcfs... Tell me, I got a letter from a man I helped put behind bars that it was heartbreaking what dcfs did...
Posted on: Fri, 17 Oct 2014 12:11:07 +0000
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