After having been someone who used to judge others (so I could feel better inside) but was then subjected to much harsh judgement in my past (especially from people I loved) which absolutely crucified me at the time, I choose to live a life now where I do my best not participate in or support any kind of judgement which includes spiritual racism too. Last time I checked, we are all from the same planet, same universe, same star dust and pray or talk to the same God-like spirit. And, no matter what you believe in or what spiritual model you live by, (or dont live by if thats what you choose), doesnt make it right for everyone else to be expected to accept your model when its their birthright to make their own. In my opinion, judgement and any of its associated expressions such as racism, harsh criticism, ego, resentment, gossip and so on, all stem from unforgiveness and/or a need to feel superior to another in the name of good. (Might be time to check yourself first, because that stems from low self worth inside actually). Such behaviour doesnt actually fix anything now does it. But forgiveness and letting go does (Forgiveness doesnt mean we condone what has occurred, it means we set ourselves free instead). Think about it - as an observation, how is casting judgement on another and somewhat damning their existence or actions, fix things? You feel good for a short while, and then what? I notice we even do what I call sugar-coating - when we judge another then justify it with lovey dovey do-good overtones to make ourselves look like the saviour while the damned one looks like the bad black sheep. do we mean to? Who knows. We are all just trying to live in this world the best way we know how. I believe that unloving behaviour does not create love, but loving behaviour does. Ask yourself - why do you feel the need to judge? because when you truly look deeper, its nthing to do with them at all, and its all about how you feel inside. And everybody wants love, and everybody wants peace inside. Often those who judge the most, judge themselves even worse too (thats self worth rearing its head again lol). Judgement is not the pathway to your own peace or to boosting your self worth on any real lasting level at all. Its time to let go. - Brigit Goldworthy x
Posted on: Thu, 20 Nov 2014 05:17:49 +0000
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