Aku dengan bini aku superhero... We run the business together every day from Monday to Monday... this includes answering calls, emails, orders, delivery, stock, complaints, goods, transactions, bills, expenses, accounts, and staff. We get to do some washing and cleaning, but never at our very best because of time constraint... this include cuci baju, mop, sweep, cuci toilet, and vacuum... We take care of our parents... spend time with the family and feed them... this includes bringing home food, restock ubat ubat, hospital visits and checkup, handling 2 hyperactive kids, their clothes, their makan, their entertainment and take them jalan-jalan... We educate our kids and send them to classes and school... We go visit families far away because we care... sick family, weddings, kenduri and celebrations... We welcome and entertain visiting families to our home... from all over the world to come and stay with us and we take them around... We eat out and go jalan-jalan whenever we have the chance... But... My wife seldom gets the chance to cook for us at home... We never get to really clean our house... We seldom get to sleep in or wake up late... Because we dont have a maid... Sometimes we even have to take our kids to work because nobody to look after them... And the best part is, we have siblings... brothers and sisters who can in fact help us once in a while, but they couldnt be bothered. They dont come and visit our mother unless they want money... They dont offer us a hand because they have their own excuse of having a husband or a wife that doesnt like to be with the family. Excuses like they have kids and a husband to take care of. Excuses like they dont have money to come and visit. Sometimes we dont need money to help the family. All we need is to give our support by helping with kederat. Show that you love and care is enough. Many of our friends envy us because we have our own time and our own business... they say weh have freedom. But if I tell them to live 1 month of me and my wifes life, they will definitely quit! They would rather get a fixed salary on a day to day job, weekend off, eat home cooked food and enough sleep without having to help anyone else in need. Having a maid is not the solution but good help. But having supportive siblings who are willing to help look after our mother, bring food to her and our children, once a week or once a month would be such a relief for us... Yet, they insisted not to... its sad really, but I do hope and pray that God is on our side through this.
Posted on: Tue, 09 Dec 2014 06:31:23 +0000
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