All queens, young and old, are or have been guilty of shade throwing, shit talking, or putting someone down. Im so tired of seeing it and hearing about it. But keep in mind that rumors are NOT truth. It is a two way street. If you are feeling put down then pm, text, call, kik, email or write a letter to the queen, young or old because both sides do it, and speak up. Be nice and respectful, say hey I heard this was said about me and it hurt my feelings. I look up to you and this made me feel like there is a problem. How can we work on fixing it? The problem is we all bicker and argue and get in shade battles when what we need to do is wise up, put the past in the past, talk to one another and WORK IT OUT. it should not be attacking because it will only be met with anger and bitterness and yes some of us old queens can be bitter and jaded. But a lot of us old queens get a bad wrap due to not communicating. If you vaguebook about it and just throw shade then all you will get is blowback shade. None of us have it all figured out. None of us know everything and all of us could stand to learn and practice compassion and understanding. If we put our time and effort into getting to know each other instead of listening to I heard she said this I heard he did that did you hear what they did all that kind of bullshit, we would actually be a community of people who are working to make things better.
Posted on: Mon, 14 Jul 2014 08:59:44 +0000
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