An update to I lost a FB friend First thank you to everyone who commented on that post. Im truly touched by the support, kind words and giggles too. But let me share a lesson that we all seem destined to repeat. Its a lesson of Timing. I believe that everything happens for a reason in its right time and space. Usually we think of that phrase when were waiting for something good. In this case, I had a conversation with the person and hours later their account was gone. So of course I jumped to the conclusion that I had offended them in some way. Were all guilty of that its all about me perspective. Even when we know better. The exit from FB caused me to feel a bit more sad because I thought I was the cause. Well turns out it had nothing to do with me at all. Another dart from the its all about me perspective hits the bulls eye and not in a good way. Ok, that part is good; but as always happens, that kind of thinking typically turns around and kicks us in the butt. Yep. At least it was a little kick. Turns out the person has/had an online stalker and while they reported the problem to FB, they were having a hard time blocking and stopping the situation. The stalker continually created a new account and picked up where they left off. So the only option for my friend, was to delete the FB account. Here in the U.S. we have cyber stalking laws. If you have a problem like this, you should check with your state and see what options are available to you. Theyre different from state to state. Google for cyber stalking laws your-state and youll probably find some government website that will tell you what the laws are and what options you have. And if youre in some other country; do the same thing; you might similar options where you are. Thank you all again for your compassion. Big hugs go out to everyone.
Posted on: Mon, 14 Jul 2014 18:25:53 +0000
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