And here are more of my lies right for empty hopes...... This is why I have no trust in you. I made this all up right?????? Still no grocery list, still no children knowing what is going on, no Xmas, goodnight and have a great life ruining others. On Dec 21, 2014 5:49 PM, Ryan Pickel wrote: Jaaziel, Okay, Im glad to hear rational back in your writing again. We have to continue working toward a goal. From my perspective, working on some common issues to stabilize ourselves is essential. Initially, agree that living arrangement during this period are that you and the girls stay at the house if that is where you want to be and that me and the two older boys stay in the guest room with Sarah, Kridder can do at either location as needed. If the girls want to come with me Im happy to have them. If the boys want to be with you Im okay with that as well. Our house will work as the families central hub for all family functions. You and I should try to list all appointments on the family calendar on Google calendar. I will check it daily for the to do items and reference for needed coordination with you to manage family care and transportation. As you and I progress through treatment revisions will be made as needed in a mutual format. Regular family or parent meetings should meet no less than weekly for the purpose of schedule changes and new behavioral skill implementation so that as we learn new skills we have a family chart, schedule, and family course plan to use as a reference point for the purpose of reference and measured progress. I know this all sounds dry and cold, possibly even burdensome to you. Maybe it doesnt, I hope not. Either way, this is how I see a way for us, you and i , as well as the family to establish a base to work from in our current situation. Let me know if this makes any sense to you or if it is something we can use to work from. Ill set tonight and work on a grocery list. The other items in the letter will have a response by morning. Ill be there in the morning with the boys for school. Ryan On Dec 21, 2014 4:04 PM, Jaaziel Pickel wrote: I am home the card balance is $367 which for 14 days left leaves $26.21 a day and $5.24 per person on card. We still have a good portion of that meat in freezer so I will divide it up. As far as that I have a hard time when smaller grouping of foods. If you could get a idea list of meals for there that would help with determining what to buy. I have the comp list that was suspose to be a week and a half of food if not more and I can try to get what you guys are wanting. I have been shopping one way for 9 years its hard when I do break from that system and I am going to try to keep it within budget the best I can. Eric isnt worried right now because they just got theirs in last week so I have some wiggle room for budget to be past to next month. I have my appointment tomorrow and was going to do shopping then. I will bring it up or if your down here you can come by. I believe I sent enough diapers for Anthony for two days but my diapers have been a wreck and I am missing pieces that shouldnt. I am searching tonight for the rest and I will drop off another wet bag and bring down the dirty. I found both boys dses. I dont know where their cord is or games. If you want me to I can bring them up with groceries. I am hoping that I will be able to bring Anthony tomorrow night but Idk. I want him just as bad as all of them but he seriously is the biggest distroyer and distractions. I hate doing it to him but I cant drive up and down daily. I have half a tank of gas if that so I need to keep what I can so I can find work. I have set a goal for Xmas eve to be done with what I can do in common living space. Girls room is last as usual because they will be helping just as boys did. I want the kids together for at least a movie on Xmas eve or Xmas. I know Tyler is almost on edge of a mental breakdown. She hasnt eaten for two days and all last night and today she has nonstop been on my side. She understands what is going on and isnt sure like everyone what is going on. We either need to sit down with all five as both parents or just one two times to let them know that yeah things are up in the air, that it life and that we all need a common effort. We also need to tell them that there is an uncertainity in the future and that if it does happen it is none of their failures. We have five strong willed children that also carry a lot. I am signing Tyler back up tomorrow before she starves herself. I was hoping she would just blow up when we were in our spat earlier so she could get it out but she is holding it all in. I am disappointed to say that while I was letting Eric know the situation Jael did the same thing she does to us. I am going to have her assessed again. I am not sure how I am going to make sure were all getting assistance with a job or no job either is still a headache but it will work out. Wow I am calm, and can finally write with out anger. I want this calmness more and hope that it starts back on that path. I have phone on blocking mode and dont plan to keep it near me so if there is an emergency call a few times. If your really needing me to take kridder back after tonight I think that we should revisit the schedule of him. TTYL, Jaz
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