Anger Often damages and destroys families. He made me mad.” This is another phrase we hear, also implying lack of control . There is no force involved Becoming angry is a conscious choice, a decision; therefore, we can make the choice not to become angry. We choose! Aggression, … suppressing the anger, talking about it, screaming and yelling,” are all learned strategies in dealing with anger. “We choose the one that has proved effective for us in the past. No anger can be justified. Anger is a yielding to influence by surrendering our self-control. Unchecked, anger can quickly trigger an explosion of cruel words and other forms of emotional abuse that can scar a tender heart. It is “that which cometh out of the mouth. Physical abuse is anger gone berserk and is never justified. Anger is an uncivil attempt to make another feel guilty or a cruel way of trying to correct them. It is often mislabeled as discipline but is almost always counterproductive. Choice and accountability are inseparable. Is anger worth the cost of loosing are realationships with family and friends? Because they don’t make the choices we think they should.
Posted on: Sun, 14 Jul 2013 18:47:13 +0000
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