As many people continue to say the love Alli and Charles or they are the complete opposite I think its important to realize that if all this crap keeps happening all thats going to happen is going to push both of them off the internet all together. I know many of you are angry and hurt and you want answers but as a woman going through a divorce right now myself this is the toughest part.. I think part of why Alli has yet to address anything directly is because maybe shes at a loss for words and isnt sure what to say.. It took Charles 6 times to post that video.. As far as why, it doesnt matter and its not of anyones business. People change and people grow apart.. My ex and I were married for 10+ years and together for 12 and our separation was mutual and not many people saw it coming.. They had a lot of things going both for them and against them.. All of which are the same things. Being in the public eye every single day! Yes their choice but still. Charles illness, illness and specifically cancer takes it toll on relationships. Charles touring / long durations of time apart.. Well this is the biggest.. Dont get me wrong some people can do it and do it soo well however the facts show the group of people with the highest divorce rate are the military.. Why? Because they spend so much time apart. People grow and change everyday. When you spend so much time apart its difficult to make sure youre growing together. My only thought about this whole thing is I hope they didnt just walk away and tried to work things out even if it was with counseling or with someone who could help them work through the arguments even if it was something stupid like how to put the toilet paper on the holder.. Seriously guys it can be something as small as that.. They are both great an axing people and I have spoken to them both on twitter a few times on the last couple years. But from my own experience and why I am getting divorced was I wanted to be happy and all we did was fight constantly, we have 2 children and have worked very diligently to remain friends for the sake of our kids.. Please everyone i dont care if you are 12 or 60.. It not time to pick sides, its time to let them work through stuff and to be there for other ctfxcers who are needin to work through their emotions... This is a loss guys a part of the ctfxc has changes and it will never be the same. But where it goes from here is not nearly a choice of what Charles or Alli are going to do, its also about how you choose to react and respond to this situation that will determine the future of the ctfxc and all of the YouTube videos... At this point I would not be surprised if everyone keeps talking bad and taking sides I could see them both walking away from it all.. So think about that when you are about to bash someone or make accusations about something or someone. Just let them be Charles and Alli together or apart they are great people both are hurting and just need lots of friends and family to be there for them. They need love guys.. Stop the hating, stop the picking sides. Its hurtful to both of them and their families.
Posted on: Thu, 10 Apr 2014 02:58:49 +0000
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