Assalamu alaikum sisters I married and mother of baby I am.22 years.old i had love marriage with one of my family relative from.paternal side. My husbands father and.my father were buisness partner. After he passed away his sons took over. My husband is the eldest. Sisters. I dont know what to say. My husband and I.had relation secretly cos my parents were against his family and him. He resided.in Australia. I am.the one who told.him that i like him and he took it in.a very serious extent till marriage as it.was.his time to marry and I was in 11th. I had the perfect relation, no.fight, no.doubt. Nothing. he did all.he could to be the man of my dream and yes i did feel weak for him.and.agreed to marry him. His mother had enmity with my mother but if they met she was so adorable to her. I had a very diff view about them but afyer meeting him.it changed and i felt even my parents would know it later. My husbands called.me.once even told pls care about the reputation of out family. And i melted and firmly said myself.i will.marry him Despite my parents warning and even saying tqo an extent that they will.disown.me. i was stubborn in.my decision to.marry him. they gave up and i got married. And there.where i did the.foolish mistake.of.my.life Just after the day of marriage my mother in law and husband changed. he changed into totally.botherless, no.feeling person, cos.i.m.his wife and its legal, he.had fun. And I was.all like shocked and felt chilled by seeing there change. Yes I spoke to him, i told everything, we had fight and even.sometimes it ise to go up to leaving each other. But i really loved him, i melted for him.and even took his fault on.my head and said him.sorry. Sisters I did.everything to get him love me.i even.lied many times.with many things, made issue purposely just to see his reaction. no use. He married me.for bbuisness, to settle his brother,his brothers misbehave with my father and me.and even once tried hitting my father. he never said them.anything. instead he too misbehaved. if it is about money he doesnt care anything. Sister we.have baby. he shows sometimes irritation with baby. i beg him to be sweet to.me.,nice to me..he says i have no time. Sisters to be honest. i love him. after everything , after he getting married.to.me.for buisness and he ignoring me.i still love him. i miss him even.infront of.me. i say sweet things, send him.poems do what i can to get him.to me .he is behind money and family. My family tells to marry again. its.not easy. leaving getting married,no.assurance of.the second guy. i have no qualification too to provide for baby. I am.just so messed with my life. i just think about him. he is my weakness. I m.not good wife but he doesnt care about feelings he needs.maid. i will.be that too but he point.my flaws and.taunts.me.every now.and.then and.now.i.m.with him.for.baby and also cos i love him but he doesnt care. we have 13 years difference.in.age. but i love him Sisters pls.help me weve been married for 4 years. *A point to be added* My mother in law called me and requested to marry him, as for the sake of reputation.She was really supporting us because she wanted to take revenge from my mom for refusing them. After getting married, she and her daughter use to use bad words on my family and say stuffs about them infront of me and my husband and he kept quite. they even gave lie accusations against me and my family. My younger brother in law always critisized me and made lie accusation with me. they always compare me with his wife. I dont know what have i done, to gain one mans love, i gave up everything. i regret .he is sometimes so good to me.and sometimes as if i dont exist. I understand he is the eldest and maybe he cant say certain things. but he can console me at least. he says me to be of his age, i m.childish. to give up friends, but he cant be one. if i say him something more he tells me to leave. He hasnt yet paid my mahrs money, if i ask him about it, he simply says i dont have and i cant fulfill that much amount, why did your dad demand so much and i said him.so why didnt you protest him, to marry me.you were ready to pay anything. But after so many things again i just fall weak for him. i think about him. i love him but he doesnt care.
Posted on: Wed, 29 Oct 2014 12:01:22 +0000
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