At 6 in the morning I have a heavy heart. Im in mourning because I see a uncontrollable trend in relationships that are suppose to be successful. I listen and I believe that the problem is the same deep rooted issue that seems to go unnoticed. As time progress and you and a person begin go establish a life you have things that are filtered in and things that are filtered out. Its not controllable its the law is cohabitation. If anything comes into a known setting and become a everyday factor things will change. Thats common physics. But here Im starting notice the change. Things change but people dont except the change well. If this is the person that you met in the beginning then thats the person youll have in the end. Im not saying that they will give you your first spark you had when it was new but hence if you look at that sentence you will notice a key word, first. Meaning the beginning, not always ,but exactly what it says, first. If you work towards finding that first feeling the second time then youre not growing and your chasing the past. We have a tendency to get stagnated and then lose what the main purpose was. The growth of a relationship. Relationships are like kids you have to raise them. You get out what you put in. You dont put water in a jug and get wine Jesus does so stop expecting a miracle when you work your relationship. Its on both parties not one to have understanding. Its on both parties to except the tough and hard decisions. I tell women all the time judge your partner by his ways he treat his kids. If he has no love for a part of himself living breathing and talking how can he love that has no part of him. Be the parent of your relationship. Its yours ,raise it. Stop taking each other for granted. Because you feel its not important doesnt mean that your significant other does. Open your mind as well and as fast as you are willing to open your mouth. You have two ears and one mouth. One should never be greater than two. Its common math it leaves a negative and who wants to live with a negative. #idratherbuildaroadofhistorywithsomeonethanabridgebetweenthem
Posted on: Wed, 29 Jan 2014 11:32:19 +0000
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