At the end of last year and beginning of this year, I said I was going to start not taking stuff personal (to heart) and not keep people in my life that tolerate me. If u in my life u r going to have to love me. Yes I dont do everything, can be loud, joke too at times, etc. but it is me. If u r going not to like me it will be on the merit of me being authentic not on the merit of me trying to be someone else. Sometimes it is not easy being urself becuz a lot of people have things to say etc. However, these same people dont care if u r sad, depressed, or struggling. They just want to pick out things in ur life THEY feel are wrong. They dont have a REAL concern for ur well being. So why give them the power to dictate? I put up wit some disrespectful situation and disrespected myself. It took me a minute to get to this place but 2 things I had to learn. That was it is what it is and let go cuz people move on to the next. Abandonment issues are yall and will have u holding onto things, people, memories, and words u that u need to put out of ur life. So that being said I got love but have moved on. Why? I have learned that some people dont care for me, but others seek me out for me and not for foolishness either onlookers. That being said u MUST encourage yourself, trust urself with urself, and be YOU. No shade to anyone, but I am back!!!
Posted on: Tue, 25 Mar 2014 13:23:00 +0000
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