Awakening to the True Self You are a spiritual being. Your twin soul relationship awakens you to your true self. Manifesting your twin soul relationship is part of your awakening to your true self. You are a soul with a body. It is this concept that you must embrace and understand to manifest your twin soul relationship. It is a relationship between souls. In order to enjoy this relationship you must transition from an ego/personality/body with a soul to a soul with a body which is your true state of existence. There are many roads to reach this state, you may visualize, affirm, or meditate. but until you reach your true self your Twin Soul relationship will remain just out of your reach. It is why so many are discourage or counseled to abandon this difficult relationship. The difficulty comes because we have become complacent living as a ego/personality instead of the true souls we are. When we reach for the twin soul relationship we do so through ego/personality means and find that the relationship cause “pain, frustration, and angst. Those are only reminders that we are a spiritual being encased in an ego driven physical form it is not a sign that you should abandon the relationship. Instead it is a sign that it is time to begin our spiritual journey as a soul in this physical world. We are being pushed to break out of the ego/persona;ity/ body existence and step into the true self. Meeting your twin soul is the alarm clock that says it is time to wake up. What Do I do Now that I found my Twin Flame? Many of you have questions about having found your TF, now what do I do? You need to understand that this is not an ordinary relationship and it does not adhere to the ordinary rules that you use to determine whether to go or stay in a relationship. First difference is this relationship is the beginning of a spiritual journey. Even though it touches your emotions and may even stir your libido it is still a spiritual union. This relationship marks the beginning of a spiritual journey in which you get to know as much about your self and your inner essence as a possible and you grow spiritually. If you think a twin flame relationship is strictly about having someone to “call your own” this relationship will be a shocker to you. What happens during the relationship is that you realize that you must become a spiritual being in order to make the relationship work on a physical level. If you are not ready to begin a true spiritual journey then you are probably not ready for a twin flame relationship. If you are not ready to release all the things you think you know and believe about how a relationship should work you are not ready for a twin flame relationship. If you are not ready to release the baggage from previous relationships and realize this is a unique and different experience you are not ready for a twin flame relationship. That said if you are truly ready then your journey begins by looking within for that which connects you to your Twin Flame. You must first become one with your inner essence/soul. From there you will be directed on how to proceed with the manifesting of your Twin Flame relationship into the physical. Also be aware that your “ego” and your soul/inner essence can not share the same “house”. So you have some choices to make, when you have made them amazingly enough you will have taken the steps to find your Twin Flame or the steps to work out the relationship in the physical. Finale note since souls which are the base of Twin Flame relationships do not “dangle carrots” know that if you have met your Twin Flame it is because the relationship is meant to manifest in this life time in the physical. The only thing that will stop it is the choices you make. Approval Is it more important that your friends and family approve of the decision that you make in your twin soul relationship, or that the decisions that you make resonate with you and your soul? I ask that because sometimes the hardest decision we make is whether to please family and friends or ourselves. There is a fear that if we go against the majority consensus and things not work they will say “I told you so” or not be supportive. How many chances to be happy or to achieve something that is really important to us are lost that way? Are you willing to let your spiritual journey with your twin soul be handled that way? From where I stand it is more important that the choices I make resonate with my soul and my twin souls’ soul than with any one individual or group of individuals. It is in this relationship that the majority is not always right. It is in this relationship that the majority should not rule unless it is the souls who are considered the majority. Can you hear the choices of the soul over the opinions of family and friends running through your mind? If not this would be the time I advocate clearing your mind of clutter. It would be a wise thing to release all that does not belong to your soul at this point. Because if you make a choice based on the consensus you will find that later no one “told you to give up on the relationship” they just suggested it was not “right” for you. Sometimes the only thing not “right” for you is other people’s opinions of what is right for you. Does your Confidant Have a Twin Soul? Does the person that you share every up and down, every positive or negative event in you twin soul relationship have a twin soul? You may be thinking why is that important? Let me ask you another question would you take advice on how to rear your child from someone that has no children and clearly do not understand children or even like them? Probably not. But you will take advice from a “friend” who does not have a twin soul or from someone who say they have a twin soul but have “decided” not to pursue the relationship. Sharing information with either of the above can have an interesting effect. What might be a major breakthrough in the relationship may be treated as a figment of your imagination or as wishful thinking on your part. This then turns what should be positive to doubt and uncertainty on your part. Unfortunately it is your views of the relationship that determines whether it works or not. Whether it manifests or not is determined by you and your connection to the only ones who should be involved in the relationship and that is the souls. Interpretations of events in the relationship is best sorted by your inner advisors or someone who has the experience of working with and making progress in their own twin flame/twin soul relationship. When you are introduced to your twin soul/ twin flame it is the souls way of saying it is time to begin a new spiritual journey, it may take you away from all that is familiar, that is a choice you must make. However make no mistake about the fact that it is your journey. It does not belong to your friends or your family. It belongs to you and your soul and your twin souls’ soul, as you make progress it will begin to include your twin souls’ physical form. The more advanced your progress on the journey the more people will join you, some seeking advice, some seeking a like minded companion, some seeking to derail what they do not understand or approve of. If you are confident in your relationship and not seeking validation from others these added people will be no problem. However at the stage where you are still uncertain, your most helpful input will come from within you, from your spiritual companions [his/her soul and yours], not your physical ones. The next time you think to confide something that is clearly part of your twin flame/twin soul journey ask your self will talking about this bring positive relationship affirming results? Twin Flame/Twin Soul Relationships First of all if your ego is the first thing that enters the conversation/relationship with you twin soul you lose. If your pride and your ego enter the conversation or the relationship it is done. Twin flame relationships serve the purpose of elevating the participant to the highest spiritual level that can be achieved. Thru a twin soul relationship you may achieve Nirvana. Problem is most people try to get there by a twin body relationship which includes egos, pride and props. Too bad they work for your ordinary short term relationships but get no where fast in a twin soul relationship. The twin soul relationship is a relationship that began in the spiritual realm of the soul and is introduced to the physical realm not to tease or to torture. but to show you what is achievable by connecting spiritually to another being. Because all things must be created on the spiritual/astral/higher plane before it manifest in your life the twin soul relationship becomes a true challenge for us. Because we do not truly realize that we are creating most of the time with our thoughts good, bad or indifferent we begins the creation process in our lives with out us being aware that we are creating. The twin flame relationship requires us to be completely aware of the spiritual side of our lives it can not be addressed in the hit and miss fashion that most of our lives are treated to.. When you learn to focus on a event in the spiritual you realize that you have more control than you think over your life. The key is that spiritual focus connects you to the soul the author of your fantastic relationship also the one with the inside knowledge on manifesting your life in a positive manner. It then becomes like having the key to the front door of the bank and the combination to the vault and the legal right to use both as you desire. Unfortunately in this exclusive relationship between twin souls these guys, egos, pride and relationship props are not welcome. Just as thieves are not welcome in the bank vault. They have an uncanny way of destroying all that we have worked so hard for. Sometimes we just have to grit our teeth and say “yes this is really annoying” but I am going to let it pass with out comment mentally or physically. Learning to do that helps remove the events that make you feel that way. If you can’t do that events that make you feel that way continue they play directly to you ego, pride and need for relationship props.. Important to remind yourself when interacting with your twin soul that all you truly need to be happy is love if you have that everything else will follow… Even the relationship coming to fruition. It is where you focus that creates what you get in life. I have found that a body to body connection in a twin soul relationship is not very fulfilling, but a soul to soul connection well that rocks. But you can only achieve that if you look to the soul/spiritual aspect of the relationship to create the physical aspect. Can’t create it from the physical inward that my friends don’t work either. How do you achieve this connection spiritually without spending every minute thinking about it because obviously you can not do that. Ladies you do it the same way you apply your make up, you do it before you walk out the door you take a moment and place your daily interaction in a positive though pattern.. Gentlemen you do the same . If we are going to meet our twin flames/twin souls after a long day ladies you refresh your makeup before you go out gentlemen you take care of the 5 o’clock shadow before you go out right? Then refresh your positive approach to to the events of the evening..take nothing for granted always prepare with a positive mind set and reinforce that as often as necessary. For those of you who want to leave nothing to chance think of it this way it is the souls relationship so the souls will be done in the handling of the relationship..they have got to know more about what is going on than the body because it has been their relationship more lifetimes than the years you have lived in this body. It isn’t their first relationship it is your first twin soul relationship. What kind of relationship is a twin flame/ twin soul relationship? What kind of relationship is a twin flame/ twin soul relationship? Is it a spiritual relationship or a physical relationship. Scenario: You meet the most remarkable person, there is instant bonding.. Then nothing, the other person pulls back, pull away. You keep trying to find a way to reconnect. Unfortunately all of your efforts are directed at the physical body. Are you surprised when it doesn’t work? Yes you are. Do you know why it doesn’t work? Here is where the real trouble begin.. Those who say it shouldn’t be. Those who tell you that you are obsessing and those who have absolutely no clue but are full of suggestions. Well here is a very simple answer the original moments, days weeks or even months of bonding was caused by a simple soul to soul connection. This connection is really what the relationship is all about. To find that wonderful bond again you must find the soul to soul connection again. Unless you have made the acquaintance of your own soul you are going to have a bit of difficulty getting to know his/her soul. It is this that makes the twin flame/twin soul relationship difficult for many. It requires you to focus on your spiritual well being in order to manifest the physical, spiritual bonding that brought you so much joy. Are you willing to do the work and get to know your own soul so you can have the relationship of your dreams? That is what makes a twin flame/twin soul relationship both special and difficult.. It forces you to be the best being you can be and that requires you to get to know your soul and its true purpose usually a purpose that you share with your twin flame/twin soul. It really and truly is a soul based relationship. Difficulties What Do they Mean? I have been asked many times why is it so difficult to make the relationship work. Perhaps it is the nature of the relationship that makes it difficult. It is a spiritual based union in a world that does everything in accordance with physical needs and desires. Many relationships are chosen based on some physical formula. Perhaps the person you are attracted to fits a perceived “need” that you have in your life, but what happens when the “need” is fulfilled do you continue the relationship? Move to another relationship to fill another perceived “need”? With a spiritual based relationship it is the souls visualization and desires that are being met. Fortunately the souls have a complete awareness of all that is waiting for you and what you need to get there. The relationship becomes difficult when you try to force it to follow the path of your perceived “need” of the moment. When we focus on what we “need” and “want” instead of creating a situation to cover those needs and wants we create a reality of needing and wanting. Now usually soul awareness and ability to provide what you need out class what you think you need by a country mile. You are insisting on physical communication and therefore you blow up the persons cell phone and e-mail but the communication between the souls is a continuous calm communication that need no physical equipment and you the physical body can take part in that communication process with better success than you have with modern technology. It only requires you to focus on your own soul and your twin souls soul to begin the communication process. Amazing there is no time when he/she will not respond to your call. The other problem with leaving the spiritual out and working only with the physical is that it opens the door for chaos to intervene and interfere. Recently I “planned” a move. It would bring me to an important place in my spiritual journey and closer to someone important to me. Interestingly enough from the moment I accepted the directions from soul to proceed chaos stepped in with a series of set backs that would in normal circumstances have stopped the progress cold. I believed that my souls visualization for me was accurate. She had shown me that what I should have to continue my spiritual journey awaited me. Based on that I trusted that if she could perceive this and show me where I need to be she could also provide me with the means to be there. Despite the set backs and the continuous financial drains I forged ahead. On several occasions it seems the best choice would have been to just give up as the situation became more problematic. I am happy to say I arrived at my destination all is as she promised. Better than I expected and proceeding as my soul visualized it. All that I can say is what my soul visualize and desire for me is much better than what I could physically bring forth. There is nothing wrong with my ability to manifest just the difference in what my soul is able to visualize and I am able to perceive. When I accept what my soul visualized for me all I really need is faith to see things through to the completion that my soul visualized and to know that we are never given a dream without the ability to manifest it. The key is to have faith in your souls visualizations and desires for you and in his /her ability to manifest what they have visualized, especially in a relationship that belongs to her/him.. They have an advantage of having done it many times before and having overcome the obstacles that have tried to separate them in the past. They can do it again and again the only time they are unable to move a situation to it’s true outcome is when you put your fears and your doubts in the way and add your perceived “needs” to the list of other obstacles. It is easy to overcome outside interference but hard to battle your self. The difference between what we think we need is that we are focused on that need and the rest of the picture go unseen we forget what we have been shown. We forget the souls power to manifest through us what it has visualized for us. If you feel that things are not going as they should then step back and refocus your energy to “what my soul visualize and desire for my life is mine now”. Once you do that watch the picture unfold and the events move rapidly into the proper sequence that will bring you what you desire. If you move a few steps forward and then take over the controls again and slip back into your “needs” and Wants don’t be shocked when things fall apart again. That is just the nature of the situation and it is what makes the relationships so difficult. It is the tools that you apply and if the job needs soul to be completed and you shut soul out because you have hit a bump in the road then the bump becomes a mountain. If you continue your path hand in hand with soul to complete his/her relationship the bumps are just that bumps. There is no situation in a twin flame relationship that the souls involved can not over come except the bodies shutting them out and taking the reins in their own hands. This applies to any spiritual path and any place you are on that path. All is never lost unless the bodies perception overrides the souls awareness and knowledge. By Jude.
Posted on: Thu, 04 Sep 2014 21:51:41 +0000
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