BEAUTIFUL HEARTS REMINDER ZONE D MOST ESSENTIAL DOS & DONT OF SAYING YOURE SORRY ... ~ By ∫̲ᴸ̲ᵒ̲ᵛ̲ᵋ̲ Dr Solomon Adams. There are some dos and don’ts of apologizing. If you want your apology to be accepted and accomplish the purpose of restoring your relationship, these are good things to know. The thing about apologizing is that your true heart shines through. It is obvious if you mean it or not. Let’s talk about this a little further in these dos and don’ts of apologizing. 1. DO RECOGNIZE WHERE YOU WENT WRONG One of the important dos in this list of dos and don’ts of apologizing is to recognize where you went wrong. If you don’t recognize what you did wrong, how can you know what you are sorry for? It is important that you tell the person you offended that you realize what you did wrong. This will help them to feel more forgiving. Don’t you want to know a person recognizes where they have erred when they have wronged you? 2. DON’T SAY YOU’RE SORRY THAT THEY ARE OFFENDED This is a really cheap shot. It isn’t an apology at all. Telling someone that you are sorry they are offended is basically the same thing as saying it’s their problem. It isn’t taking responsibility. If this is the way you feel, you are better off saying nothing. 3. DO USE THE RIGHT TONE OF VOICE You can always tell if someone is truly sorry when they apologize. Among many other factors, the tone of their voice gives it away. Therefore, if you aren’t sorry, don’t say that you are. You may need to spend some time evaluating the situation to see if you are at fault. If you see that you are, a true apology is due. 4. DON’T APOLOGIZE IF YOU DON’T MEAN IT No one wants an insincere apology. If you don’t feel you were wrong then don’t apologize. You may not be wrong. It could be the other person in the wrong. It is always best to only apologize when you know you were wrong. ☑. Like ☐. Comment . Share to help all your friends out there. /BH /▌ / \ ╚═►ᶜᵃˡˡ ᵐᵉː̗̀@∫̲ᴸ̲ᵒ̲ᵛ̲ᵋ̲ Dr SoLs
Posted on: Tue, 07 Oct 2014 08:10:16 +0000
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