BETTER SAY NO AND KEEP THE FRIENDSHIP THAN YES AND SCATTER IT The virtue of saying NO is a bitter sweet one. I lack how to qualify it but bear with this one. We often are faced with situations that forces us to go out of our way either to borrow, steal or swindle people in order to please people we think we hold in high esteem These people could be our wife, husband, inlaws, Pastors, Imams, friends, bosses, children, etc. The same people will be the ones to crucify you when your obligation to your debtors are not met. It is more so when you need them most that they will flag your inadequacy. Hmmmmm friends watch it. This is a new month and I recommend to you the NO therapy, it is clean, short, effective but only initially painful. You can use it as an injection, fast to enter the blood stream and act to deploy healing but very painful at entery. Show me a man full of debts, confused and fast loosing relevance and you will be sure is one who finds it difficult to say NO! Even when its appropriate to say it. Let me share this lesson: A story of a leaper who has a beautiful daughter and a suitor came to indicate INTREST in his daughter. The leaper knew that its a matter of time the daughter will start to manifest the symptom of leprosy so he told the suitor please you know am a leaper and I will not want additional torture on my mind, please allow her to manifest her real self before you come. But the man insisted that he has studied her enough but the father gave him two weeks to go and think about it and come if he still remain interested. The leaper then went to an artists and requested that the artists should paint his daughter with the manifestation of leprosy and wrap the work for him. After two weeks, the suitor came back and the leaper called his friend to witness the conversation. The suitor said he has come to marry the girl no going back. The man brought out the wrapped art work and wrote a capital NO and paste it on the parcel. He then said my son.....If I say NO as is pasted here you may not be happy but please take this present, take my daughter and do not pay anything. Just remember when she reaches the time of manifestation of her true self unwrap the parcel and remember this conversation. The young man accepted the gift take his heart throb, promise to do as instructed and off he went happily. At the appointed time; the girl began to manifest the symptoms of leprosy and the husband began to wonder why the father in-law told him those words. He unwrapped the present and behold saw the anticipated picture of his wife as the reason of the NO If he had taken the pains of accepting the truth of NO he would have saved himself from this emberacement. Happy New month and remember to say NO and where appropriate accept NO. Its the safest therapy!
Posted on: Tue, 01 Jul 2014 05:30:23 +0000
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